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Hokey Pokey
31-07-2006, 08:07
Ok well I think I have handled this loss pretty well. No tears in the last few days ... but my dreams seem to be so full on. I keep dreaming of either being pregnant or have had my baby but in my dreams something goes wrong with my little girl :crying: Last night I dreamt I had the baby and she was sleeping in her crib, a friend came to see her, so I went to get her and she had turned into a doll :eek: :crying: It sounds silly but in my dream I was soooo upset and woke up feeling awful.

Just wandering if anyone else here is having bad or wild dreams.

EskimoMumma
31-07-2006, 08:19
I am sorry that i cannot fully understand what you have been through as I have had no loss..(:fingerscrossed: )

But i have had a CRAZY dream like that. BUt instead my DD was in this old styled cradle (the wooden ones for dolls you know) and I had my family drop in and she was asleep in it, went back to look and she had fallen through the sides and her head was STUCK so she was like..just..hanging there and she must have strangled herself or something.. that has been my worst dream EVER.

I can't explain why we get those kind of dreams but i hate them and pray that i wont have another one like it again.



Edited: This was when i was pregnant with her(and made me think this pregnancy was a girl)

Adria
31-07-2006, 12:02
Okay this one is weird, ill try not to grag it out. (BTW i have REALLY WEIRD dreams normally)
Just before i found i was pregnant with number 2(resulted in M/C) i Dreamt my sister had given birth to twins. (My sister had a premi baby girl in march and is doing so well now!)
I was holding them one in each hand (cause they were so tiny) They seemed to have very little clothing on. I kept dropping them, i don't know why, they just kept falling off my hands. A doctar must have been around because after a few times of dropping them, i took them over to the doctar and asked if they were all right. He just looked at them and said no they are dead.


At the time i did question wether the pregnancy was going to be sucessful and if i was carrying twin boys. I tried not to read too much into it at the time. The u/s sound at 8 weeks, only showed one sac though.

chindonly
31-07-2006, 12:45
I just noticed your post and wanted to say that I feel for you:-)

Having 3 angel babies I understand what you are going through, your loss and empathise with you completely.

Take all the time you need to heal and do it in your own way. Some ppl need to talk whilst others just simply want to deal with it pretty much alone and with their partners, as I did.

There is plenty of support for you here.

ziggie
31-07-2006, 12:49
Awww, I didn't know... I'm so sorry for you :crying:
Hope your ok:hugs: .

Hokey Pokey
31-07-2006, 18:24
Thanks guys.
Mandy, yes my dream I had the night before we got a bfp was about me having had a csection and we had a baby girl born early, so I questioned the preg too as my dreams come true alot. And now with these reccuring dreams and my reading from tricia (saying i will have a csection and a girl) has me a little worried that maybe this next one may come early? as she did mention that I will be going to have more than just a baby and will know just when she is coming. :idea: