Given up on having baby

[alabre]

Hi there,

I am wondering if there is anyone else out there who has finally given-up on getting pregnant and having a child? I know it sounds a bit negative...
I am trying to decide where to go from here, as I now have no reason to exist

[babycake]

I have sent you a pm.

[HowCrazyCool]

hi there alabre, It sounds like you need some of these:hugs: And welcome to bubhub.

Bubhub is a really good place to get support from people and to put you on the right path to get support outside of bubhub.

There are lots of people on bubhub, with very unique stories and backgrounds. Im sure if you have a look around you will be able to find some people who have similar issues or just someone to talk to about things. things always seems a lot easier once i have talked about things. Like the burden is shared between two people not just on you.

So welcome, hope you enjoy bubhub, and find what you are looking for. :hugs::hugs:

[SpecialPatrolGroup]

:hugs:I just had to offer you some of these :hugs:. Your decision to stop trying must have been terribly hard and I can't imagine how much it must hurt. Please know that I think it takes a brave woman to know when to walk away from that particular fight. Be kind to yourself because better times will come; allow yourself to grieve because it is a very real loss and don't be afraid to ask for help.

[jo-anne.36]

hello there and welcome to b&h iam sorry and if you want to talk you can pm me any time as iam on the some road as you and :yes: be kind to your self :hugs::hugs:jojo

[munchkin80]

Hi Alabre, I was sad to read your msg, I am sorry you have come to this descision, but at least you have made a descision, and for that you are brave, so good on you . I have a friend who tried for 2 & 1/2 yrs before they gave up, and soon after they fell pregnant with their beautiful son who is now nearly 2, you would have heard a million times before but putting youself under stress about it is just a hinderance, just enjoy your life and know that we are all here for a reason, also, as my husband would say, there are many ways to skin a cat, likewise there are many ways to become a mummy, and there is heaps of information here on bub hub about all the different options. My most sincere wishes of luck and positive thoughts are with you.