KaM
26-07-2006, 08:31
Wasnt sure which topic to put this under so thought here would be okay.
I will start from the beginning but be brief. Basically my little girl's father lives in America. He was out for about 10 mths and went home july last year. A few week later I found out I was pregnant. We dont have a relationship anymore, we are just really good friends. We talk most days online and the occassional phone call. He seems really interested in knowing whats going on but as yet hasnt really put his money where his mouth is so to speak. He still hasnt paid any child support and nor has he sent over any presents/gifts etc. Now the money doesnt bother me really cause I can look after that on my own but its more the principal of it I guess, if you know what I mean. Anyways. . .back to my question. I have been wondering what I am going to tell my little miss when she starts to get older and starts to ask questions about where her daddy is and that kind of thing. I mean . . sometimes I will put the phone to her ear so he can say something to her but how am I going to explain it .. that her daddy is just a voice at the end of the phone? . .I know he isnt the most responsible person on this earth but he has a good heart and he is her father. I cant take that away from him. .plus I made a promise to him I never would . .. anyways .help??
I will start from the beginning but be brief. Basically my little girl's father lives in America. He was out for about 10 mths and went home july last year. A few week later I found out I was pregnant. We dont have a relationship anymore, we are just really good friends. We talk most days online and the occassional phone call. He seems really interested in knowing whats going on but as yet hasnt really put his money where his mouth is so to speak. He still hasnt paid any child support and nor has he sent over any presents/gifts etc. Now the money doesnt bother me really cause I can look after that on my own but its more the principal of it I guess, if you know what I mean. Anyways. . .back to my question. I have been wondering what I am going to tell my little miss when she starts to get older and starts to ask questions about where her daddy is and that kind of thing. I mean . . sometimes I will put the phone to her ear so he can say something to her but how am I going to explain it .. that her daddy is just a voice at the end of the phone? . .I know he isnt the most responsible person on this earth but he has a good heart and he is her father. I cant take that away from him. .plus I made a promise to him I never would . .. anyways .help??