jessgray
25-07-2006, 15:15
my younger sister is 19 but in the head she is about 15 (if that makes any sense lol) she has learning dificulties (sp?) so trying to tell her anything is hard.
i spent 2.5 hours dying her hair yesturday without a thank you :thumbsdown: and when she had looked in the mirror i said do you like it? and she said yeah :) and got her bf to pick her up.
5pm comes (about 4 hours later) and she sends me a sms saying to call her it was about her hair.she launched into a big speech about how her bf said i had missed bits and some bits werent the same colour. ( i had warned her the red might not look like the box in some spots coz her hair was all wierd coloured from her bf's attempt a few months ago at dying it blonde) anyway i told what to do to try and fix it and if it didnt work go to a hairdresser.
so then 10 mins later i get a sms saying her bf and her bf's best friend think DP is a gay C*** and want to bash him. and i rang her fone asking if the message was spose to have been sent to me and she had to ask her bf if he knew about it and then said yep it was. few mins later i get another one,saying the bf's best mate wants to "rip DP's C**k" (we never understood that either lol)
now DP doesnt like her bf for the fact her bf treats her like dirt and has hit her on several occasions but DP has never done anything to her bf. and now she is encouraging this behaviour like its funny. when it just makes DP not want to have anything to do with her bf at all.
they have been together since she was about 15. and when HE deicdes he wants to go out to the pub (she hates pubs) and pick other girls he will tell her "we need a break" and **** like that. he is using her for her money and will demand she buy him expensive things and when her birthday or a special occasion comes he gives her a $2 gift IF he remembers.
a few times she rings me in tears coz he "accidently" hit her in an arguement. but she wont dump him.
i have told her he is no good for her and she would be better off without him and our whole family have said it but she always says she would only leave him if she could find another bf,she doesnt want to be alone.
what should i do?
i spent 2.5 hours dying her hair yesturday without a thank you :thumbsdown: and when she had looked in the mirror i said do you like it? and she said yeah :) and got her bf to pick her up.
5pm comes (about 4 hours later) and she sends me a sms saying to call her it was about her hair.she launched into a big speech about how her bf said i had missed bits and some bits werent the same colour. ( i had warned her the red might not look like the box in some spots coz her hair was all wierd coloured from her bf's attempt a few months ago at dying it blonde) anyway i told what to do to try and fix it and if it didnt work go to a hairdresser.
so then 10 mins later i get a sms saying her bf and her bf's best friend think DP is a gay C*** and want to bash him. and i rang her fone asking if the message was spose to have been sent to me and she had to ask her bf if he knew about it and then said yep it was. few mins later i get another one,saying the bf's best mate wants to "rip DP's C**k" (we never understood that either lol)
now DP doesnt like her bf for the fact her bf treats her like dirt and has hit her on several occasions but DP has never done anything to her bf. and now she is encouraging this behaviour like its funny. when it just makes DP not want to have anything to do with her bf at all.
they have been together since she was about 15. and when HE deicdes he wants to go out to the pub (she hates pubs) and pick other girls he will tell her "we need a break" and **** like that. he is using her for her money and will demand she buy him expensive things and when her birthday or a special occasion comes he gives her a $2 gift IF he remembers.
a few times she rings me in tears coz he "accidently" hit her in an arguement. but she wont dump him.
i have told her he is no good for her and she would be better off without him and our whole family have said it but she always says she would only leave him if she could find another bf,she doesnt want to be alone.
what should i do?