I'm struggling, please HELP!!

[Cluelessmum]

Hi all,

I am so upset. I really don't know when my AF is due. I have put in other threads that I have been trying for 3 months now. Each Cycle is different. 1. 28days, 2. 23days, 3. 25days. From these days I think I 'O' early. However I am still learning how to predict 'O'.

So today is CD23 and I don't when to expect AF. I have been very impatient!! (insert sad face)

I have done 3 HPT, all BFN. I know I should just wait, but I still feel there may be a chance of being Pg, cause I haven't had strong cramps that I normally associate with AF coming. Or maybe I am testing too early and AF isn't really due for 5 days!!

I am struggling to keep my mind occupied. I know 3 months is nothing and some of you have been TTC for over 2 years!!

Please if you can distract me, or talk to me, I feel pretty miserable and my DH doesn't understand.

TIA :hugs:

[LillyPonds]

:wave: Cluelessmum

I just wanted to give you a :hugs:. I know it's not easy and while DHs do try they just don't understand.

Have you been on BC? I know that it can take 6 months or more to have a regular cycle. I've never had a regular cycle but then again I have PCOS so I was never goiong to have a regular cycle.

Good luck on your TTC journey! We are only a click away!

:santa::reindeer:

[Cluelessmum]

Hi Zultbear :wave:

thanks for your reply!! I was using implanon until June this year, and tried using the Novoring, which I only used for 5 weeks as have a intolerance to estrogen and suffer with extremely bad migraines :(

So since late Aug I haven't been on BC. I know DH is trying but it is very hard when they aren't going through the changes.

FX for your TTC journey also. :fingerscrossed:

[narribri]

:hugs::hugs:

[Leeee]

:hugs: my partner has stopped listening to my whinging and i can't whinge at my parents cos they deliberately ignore subjects they don't like. such as us having kids. *rolls eyes*
you had a 28 day cycle.. so prob work on that for testing this month? i dunno though, dp and i are pretty regular so that's a pure guess. i just wanted to offer you empathy
good luck though i hope you get your christmas wish
:hugs:

[Baldie's Mum]

hang in there!!! The only advice i can give you is go and buy some sexy undies and bras and other things and enjoy your husband! ;) If you can do anything dont make sex a chore. Its not fun or worth it.

Try baking nude (put an apron over your body.......dd wont mind) or showering with your DH. Its always fun! Or do a movie night and put an adult movie on! :p

Keep having fun!!!! :yes:

[vajay]

I feel your frustration :hugs: . My cycles were 26-36 days , so pin pointing O was so hard ! DH & I tried for 13 months to concieve bubs #3 , finally I got a bunch of cheap O tests off ebay & that month I fell preg , I sometimes wonder if DH and I would still be trying if I didnt use the tests.

I recommend you try them , they're cheap and you've got nothing to loose , goodluck :fingerscrossed::babydust2::babydust2: