Peed Off

[Chanelc]

Not like me to get peed off but seriously my ex has pushed me too far! He sends me emails about his business and ask me for input. I am too nice and give input as I believe when someone asks for help if you can help - then assit. But when I ask for help as everyone else is busy and I need him to look after his own daughter he tells me he is too busy!!
Anyway I raise the question of how he agreed to contribute to Chanel's cost $150 (not much - but that is all he can afford - yeah right!! He can spend over $20k on himself) HE has given me only $170 for 8 weeks - seriously what a cheap skate...
To top it the car he gave me needed a service and surprise it has so much wrong with it and the mechanic (he use to go to) told me everything has been short cutted in the past and I am left with a bill over $5k!!
I am so peed off as I can't afford all the bills and he thinks I am made of money as I went back to work part time.... since when does that make you money bags??

Man why do I even be nice I should just move states and stuff his rights to see his daughter - he aint a role model I want her to have so why do I even allow him to participate (the little time he does) in her life?

Anyway had to down load as I am very angry that he takes and takes from me and never gives anything back!

Sorry its so long but had to vent.. and after my course I know I have to let my anger out or it will just build up!:banghead:

[Illusional]

*smiles* you sure we dont have the same ex/s Cheryl?

I gave my ex money to buy me a car.. and it has now cost me triple what I paid for it, to make it go right (and it still has an issue)

He also thinks that because I now work part-time that I dont need any other help. (ok so that must mean Im rich now huh?)

And he always asks me for a lift somewhere, or to borrow money for whatever reasons... (which I agree to - stupid me), But the two times I have called him, in the last year, to help me... he couldnt be bothered!!
(I locked my keys in the car in the middle of a awful suburb and he didnt even care that me and the kids were stranded there)

I now dont do anything for him unless he pays me.. and I certainly dont lend him anything anymore.
I dont ring him for anything and dont even contact him unless it is to hand the kids over each weekend.

Some ex's just dont know how d*mn good they get it!

[Chanelc]

Thanks Shannon - all I can say is karama will bite our ex's on the bum!:devil6:
Yes after much contemplation decided stuff him and going to ensure I look after myself and Chanel. And never expect a damn thing from him - once a jerk always a jerk... or as my dad said to me a lepoard never changes its spots!