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nuddle
20-07-2006, 16:46
Hi,

I only tested this morning, got a bfp, and then this afternoon, went to the loo, and found some blood, it was red, and there was a small clot, its stopped now, so thats all it was, but now I am worried already. I had 4 miscarriages between my kids, they were found to be from a blood clotting issue, and I was on daily aspirin during my sons pg, and am on it again now.
The test this morning came up pretty strong, and very quickly, I remember with two of my early miscarriages, that the lines were much fainter... arrgghhh I hate this, I wish I could just enjoy the fact that we managed to fall pg as quickly as we did....
thanks for listening

ziggie
20-07-2006, 16:48
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
Good luck nuddle

Hokey Pokey
20-07-2006, 17:32
Have you in my prayers Nuddle, have you seen your Dr yet?
I bled with Bella and she stuck, if it gives you any hope...
But having said that I know the fear of m/c, have been there before too:hugs:

nuddle
20-07-2006, 17:37
Have you in my prayers Nuddle, have you seen your Dr yet?
I bled with Bella and she stuck, if it gives you any hope...
But having said that I know the fear of m/c, have been there before too:hugs: thank you , I know I had spotting with my son too,for around 10 days, but the clot worries me

Sarie
20-07-2006, 17:39
:hugs: hon,
I hope everything works for you!
Sending plenty of sticky baby dust your way!:hugs:

Hokey Pokey
21-07-2006, 08:44
Hi Nuddle
How is everything today?

nuddle
21-07-2006, 08:49
Hi Nuddle
How is everything today?its settled down, thanks for asking, think I might wait a few days, and then do another test, and given the result is the same, I can then go and see the dr.

Hokey Pokey
21-07-2006, 09:08
That is good to hear. Sending you lots of sticky baby dust!! How far do you think you are?

nuddle
21-07-2006, 09:10
going by my last period, I would be 4 weeks tomorrow, however, still think that my last period, was odd, it was super light,and just so unlike my periods, that part of me still wonders if I am further, which might explain the speed of the hpt line yesterday, but would make the bleeding even more of a worry, so I am sticking to 4 weeks for now.

Hokey Pokey
21-07-2006, 09:25
I see!!!! I have my :fingerscrossed: all goes well for you Nuddle.

Percy
21-07-2006, 09:38
Its a scary time to go through, and such a shame that you cant just relax and enjoy the pregnancy.

I understand how you feel. I wish you all the best!:fingerscrossed:

chindonly
24-07-2006, 09:06
Sonya : I know exactly how you feel.
Once you have a MC any preg that follow end up being filled with anxiety and worry!

It would be nice to just enjoy the exp wouldn't it.

Try and relax though ( I know its going to be hard as it would be with me! ).

I wish you the very best for a hthy happy pregnancy!!

Billy
24-07-2006, 10:49
:wave: Hi just thought I'd add that I had some bleeding and small clots at 15weeks- very scary- but as you can see from my avatar, she is a very happy healthy 11week old now... :)

:hugs: to you and :fingerscrossed: it all works out

Bel1978
24-07-2006, 11:35
Hi Nuddle,

As you know i too am in a similar situation with the Aspirin, I had a bleed at 9 weeks with my 1st one and i was fine.....Bub died of other causes.

But the fact that you are on aspirin i would get it check out by the doc or Ob or some one...... At least a scan to see if you are ok....

cmd'smum
24-07-2006, 11:44
Nuds,

:hugs: I agree with bel, just go get some bloods and possibly an U/S, as sounds like you may be further along........... I had "super light period" with second pg too, plus you say the line came up super quick!

At least having these tests can put your mind at ease to some extent!

Try to relax...its hard...try to keep your mind busy.... you will be fine :yes: :hugs:

Hokey Pokey
24-07-2006, 14:02
Yes I think a scan would be good, as your behind me in dates and you got a BFP before me and also much darker.
I have some anxietys now too as my spotting came back. I think having been through it once the worry never leaves your mind hey.

MilkOnTap
24-07-2006, 14:06
A scan is definitely a good idea. Peace of mind is worth its weight in gold, and once you have the a-ok then you will certainly sleep a lot better!

Best Wishes,
Pink Lady

nuddle
24-07-2006, 17:59
thanks girls, the spotting has stopped, and am seeing my gp on friday.

Hokey Pokey
24-07-2006, 19:36
I'm so glad yours has stopped Nuddle!
Me, well started up again today and tonight and right now having period like pains sorta like o pains aswell.... I'm really stressing as I saw a little teeny blobby bit on my pad (think it was just a brown blob of something) but I really did scrutinize it and poke and prod hoping to god it was not the baby..... and yes I cried as I was so worried :crying:

Please some one reassure me.... no blood so I guess that is a good sign right???

nuddle
24-07-2006, 19:47
I'm so glad yours has stopped Nuddle!
Me, well started up again today and tonight and right now having period like pains sorta like o pains aswell.... I'm really stressing as I saw a little teeny blobby bit on my pad (think it was just a brown blob of something) but I really did scrutinize it and poke and prod hoping to god it was not the baby..... and yes I cried as I was so worried :crying:

Please some one reassure me.... no blood so I guess that is a good sign right??? so sorry sweetie, I can only tell you thats what I had, mine was bright red, and there was a clot, and yes I did the same, prod and poke, seems it was ok. Fingers crossed yours will settle down. When are you seeing your GP? :hugs:

Hokey Pokey
24-07-2006, 19:52
Mine was brown and bout the size of a ball point pen tip....
Gosh the worry we are going thru hey.
I'm going to call Dr tomorrow and make appointment for Thursday.
Have you had cramping?

nuddle
24-07-2006, 19:59
yes, have had cramping, but remember that is quite normal, actually this time the cramping was heaps less, I remember with both Sofie and Jared, I was lying on the bed crying as the cramps were so bad. Oh, and that clot I had was actually the size of my small fingernail, so I think yours is probably just implantation cramping and spotting. Maybe take it easy if you can, put your feet up.

Hokey Pokey
25-07-2006, 06:48
Ok so my test is not getting any darker after three days.........should it be? 5 weeks today...

chindonly
25-07-2006, 08:43
Wishing you both the best and praying that all will be well. I could say try not to worry but I know you will as we do!

Hokey Pokey
25-07-2006, 09:01
Thankyou. I'm trying not to jump the gun and think bad as it is only brown... :fingerscrossed:

nuddle
25-07-2006, 18:25
Thankyou. I'm trying not to jump the gun and think bad as it is only brown... :fingerscrossed: I can only say that mine got heaps darker, but on the other hand, I have heard from other women that had faint ones, that never got darker, and they had a healthy pg.. please see your dr for some bloods. :hugs:

Hokey Pokey
27-07-2006, 07:49
Well yesterday I got a negative, and so did the night before.
Yesterday started having bad pains and have been bleeding heavily ever since. My symptoms have now gone this morning so I guess it is all over with now.

nuddle
27-07-2006, 08:01
Well yesterday I got a negative, and so did the night before.
Yesterday started having bad pains and have been bleeding heavily ever since. My symptoms have now gone this morning so I guess it is all over with now. I am so sorry :hugs:

Hokey Pokey
27-07-2006, 08:13
Thanks Nuddle.