TTC and losing hope.....

[Taylah]

Hi I am new to this board. My name is Taylah and I am ttc for baby no. six,
So far, it's been 2months and nothing....I am starting to panic,
could this be a sign of infertility? I hope you don't think i am crazy
but I watched my friend go down this path. She suffers from infertility and hasn't fell pg yet. I don't want to go down that path. i couldn't stand the pain of infertility. I don't smoke or drink and eat very healthy.
With my other pg's I fell straight away and thought this was normal for me, but now it's been two month's and nothing.
I am so down and my kids and husband have really sensed it.
My children's ages range from 10 to 13 months old. I love my kids
and desperately want to give them another brother or a sister,
the youngest one, is a girl and her older brother is 2 and desperately wants another baby brother to play with. I am really hoping for a boy
as well. as much as I want a girl, I would love a boy for my only son.
I hope I am not sounding too selfish.
Any suggestions would be great. I am happy for what I do have
but a boy and a pg soon would really ease the pain that I am currently suffering. I havn't been able to sleep properly. Help???

[My Miracle Baby]

Hi Taylah, I don't think you have anything to worry about as yet. As far as I am aware, a healthy couple can take up to a year to conceive. If after a year, it hasn't happened, then they will start to look at infertility issues. I am currently on my 3rd cycle and nothing has happened as yet. I am slowly learning to stress less (the girls on bub hub are teaching me that), cause if you stress, it may prolong the whole process. Lots of women seem to conceive when they let their hair down so to speak. I know it is hard, trust me I know. I wish you all the very best and may baby dust visit you soon.

[Hokey Pokey]

Sounds like your stress could be prolonging it. Try to relax a little, easier said than done I know! :hugs:

[little_fish]

:wave: Hi Taylah, I'd say that since you've conceived 5 times before you've got a good chance that everything ok and it's just a matter of time before your sixth comes along. Hang in there, and like the others said, try to relax about it if you can.

[chicken]

Taylor - I really think you're over-reacting. There are plenty of women on this website with diagnosed infertility problems and many like myself who have been TTC #1 for around a year or more. You really shouldn't be stressing yourself just yet. You've already had 5 children, so I think you can be pretty safe in assuming you are fertile! Its only been two months - sometimes it just takes a while.

[Oscar's mum]

sometimes it just takes a while.


I agree with Chicken!;) When we were trying to fall pg the first time it took us nearly a year then this time around it happened without us even trying so don't fret about trying for 2 months and nothing happening.

[SuperWoman]

Taylor - I really think you're over-reacting. There are plenty of women on this website with diagnosed infertility problems and many like myself who have been TTC #1 for around a year or more. You really shouldn't be stressing yourself just yet. You've already had 5 children, so I think you can be pretty safe in assuming you are fertile! Its only been two months - sometimes it just takes a while.

Taylah, I agree with Chicken also, I really wouldn't be stressing just yet hun! I understand that each month that AF comes it is disapointing but 2 months is not something to be stressing over, try and relax and you never know what could happen.