Going to a Greek Christening

[Spider]

Hi all,

I am new to this forum and found it by accident. I am going to a christening next month and have never been to one. The mum has sort of said they would prefer money, what is the going rate?

[bambino]

Hi Spider.

Yes most European families do prefer money as gifts.

There is no real going rate, it is more what you can afford, how close to the family you are and what you think would be acceptable.

I have a Greek husband and with most functions we have gone to we have given cash and we have also received cash for our engagement, wedding and more than likely we will receive cash for bubs christening too.

Go with what you feel and can afford. Don't be ashamed if it not a lot. They will appreciate it regardless.

:thumbsup:

[Tarnya]

Are you greek yourself? I have a large extended greek in law family and they say money is to be given by greeks to greeks, you can get whatever you desire present wise or give money, money giving is generally for within the extended family. :thumbsup:

[bambino]

Every family is different and will have different views on what is "correct".

Spider if you are unsure, just check with someone else who is attending. I am sure they will let you know of their preference.

[MissSparkle]

My fiance is greek and my little man was christened greek orthodox in April.

TO be completely honest most of the greeks gave him money where as my family gave gifts. In my DF's family they have a bit of an unspoken system. Like if someone gives u $100 for an occassion, u give them $100 at one of their "occassions"> It's not rock solid but apparently it's respectful.

People gave my Ds anywhere from $50- $500. He's a rich little man now! hehehe. If its just a friend I'd say buy a pressie, if its family maybe $50 in a card is the way to go.

[chantysmum]

Hi there,
I think just do what you can afford and what you think they deserve. I guess it also depends how many in the family are going. Hubby and I went to one before bub was born and we gave $100. Im sure whatever you so will be fine :thumbsup:

[gidgeroo]

Hi Spider
I know my family always gives money as gifts for weddings and christenings - but in our case it is only the closest family members that do this. If your friends have said they would like money then whatever you want to give will be perfect - there is no "going rate" as such. Anything you give will be appreciated whether it's money or a gift - its up to you.

have fun breaking plates and doing the zorba!! Opa!!

cheers Georgia