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[sammyeddy]

Hi I am new to this and I would love to chat to parents out there about the highs and lows of parenting. I ahve two children, Seamus 2 years and Lachlan 4.5 months. Lachlan is giving me a hard time at the moment and I a have no idea what is wrong with him, I feel like the worlds worst Mum.
Hope to hear from someone.

[Niki]

hiya :wave: im sure your not the worlds worst mum:hugs:

[Mahjong]

Welcome to Bub Hub!

You are NOT the worst mum in the world. :hugs:

Hopefully the girls around here will be able to give you some advice :thumbsup:

[musicmum]

Babies are hard work sometimes I have a 4month old daughter and a 3 year old too. I have only just joined but am fast becoming addicted its just great to share advice etc with others. I'm sure you are a terrific mum!!!
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[liah]

Your not a terrible mum its just called being 2! :laughing:
My DS is 14 months and I swear he thinks he is 2 already, terrible 2's arent supposed to start until they are TWO!!! :banghead: :laughing:

[SuperWoman]

Welcome to Bub Hub!!! Dont worry hun we all feel like that sometimes:hugs: . You are not the worlds worst mum.:)

[Janelle]

Dont worry too much. We all have our bad days. :hugs: Just take it easy and give ur self a break from time to time so the kids wont drive u nuts.

I remember a chart given by the nurse with babies' sunny and stormy periods. When u look at it it's mostly stormy...hahah..I still dont know how i survive those 5 hrs sleep a day.:p


Janelle (29) mum to Liam (13 mth)

[Mum2Bug]

Your not a terrible mum its just called being 2! :laughing:
My DS is 14 months and I swear he thinks he is 2 already, terrible 2's arent supposed to start until they are TWO!!! :banghead: :laughing:
Try telling that to my 16 months DD!

Welcome to Bubhub sammyeddy. You are not a bad mum! And we are all here to help, listen etc. So come in, sit down with a cuppa and have a chat!

[OscarTheGrouch]

Hi and welcome.:wave:

[bronny-jane]

hello:wave: :wave:

[Funkychicken]

:wave: Hi and welcome to bubhub!!:wave:

[Mum&bubs]

Hello & welcome to bubhub. Im sure you are not the worlds worst mum! We all have our moments where we feel like we are but they are just 'moments'. Hope you enjoy it here :wave:

[Kari_Adel]

Hi and welcome! :kiss:

You've heard this 100 times but I'll say it again.. YOU are not the worlds worst mum! But I understand how you feel, its horrible to feel so hopeless at something thats supposed to come so naturally.. but even the best have those days.. weeks.. months! :hugs:

As for your thread, many have replied and referred to terrible twos (I too have been through that difficult time this past year when your loving cuddly baby turns into a restless terror who says he doesn't love you if you don't buy him a chuppa chup! :( )

But you've mentioned Lachlan (4.5mo) is the one giving you a hard time. Is it due to teething, introducing solids, bottles, night-feeds or that dreaded 5-letter word.... S L E E P ?

This time was a long time ago for me, and one I seem to have suffered memory-loss (maybe due to intense loneliness and severe sleep-deprivation).. and I don't know if I could be much help..

Could others pls be more specific towards little Lauchlan?

SAMMYEDDY, surround yourself with friends and support.. and I'm sure there are plenty of shoulder's to "lean" on here - hence why I signed up.. today! Hehehe..

Kari xo

[InSaneOne]

hello and welcome to bubhub :wave: .


i hope things get better for you and for lachlan. they do go through phases where nothing seems to help. my dd was the most unsettled baby for the first 2 months now at 11 months she is an angel, but it was rough for a while there. remember things do get better. if you need to talk feel free to pm or email me.

[Fairyfloss]

Hi :wave: Welcome to bubhub I am sure you will have lots of fun and great advice in here