Should we or shouldnt we???

[hayles86]

Hi everyone :D Well heres my little problem. We have 2 kiddies DD is 3 and DS is 1.5 years old. I would love a new baby and have for a few months now but hubby isnt sure about how we wouldnt handle a new baby with the kids being so young still. But my health isnt the best as i have a bladder condition that is starting to cause me alot of pain and my worry is that when i had my first 2 kids my pain was really even there at all. But my pain has gotten alot worse and im worried about a baby sitting on my bladder for 9 months. But another issue is how about cars? I really dont think we could fit 3 car seats in the back of my commodore at all. I can barely fit in the back with the 2 kids:confused: So what cars does everyone have with 3 kids in car seats have? Also whats it like going from 2 kids to 3 kids? and whats a nice age gap?


Any help would be great. :thumbsup:

[bronny-jane]

when i had 3 kids, we had a commodore...;)
guess it depends on your seats.. our eldest was in a booster and H harness... in the middle, carseats on the side:)..

i had mine in quick succession, its really good, honestly it isnt a big thing going from 2 to 3:no:.. but i know i was freaked out by it.. now i have 4, same as 3:D

weigh up your health issues, you health is the important thing in this...
but the other worries.. they arent a big problem, you'll work it out..

anyway, good luck with your choice:thumbsup:

[moozle]

I think only you can say when you feel your family is complete. If you are not in a position where you can buy another car now, I'd be inclined to wait, personally. You have a beautiful boy and a beautiful girl already and although you mentioned you have a condition, is there any real reason why you can't have another one in a year or so when your oldest will be in a booster or out of a car seat altogether. Your bladder may have had a bit of time to recover then, also?

[hayles86]

Thanks heaps for the replys!

We kinda need a new car now but we were going to buy a newer commodore but now that we have decided to have number 3 im thinking they wont really fit. DS is in a safe and sound meridian and DD is in a maxirider. And i would love to buy DS a maxirider and put bubs into his seat as its a very good and safe seat.
As for my bladder it will never really get better as there is no cure only ways to "hopefully" help the pain a little.
Im seeing a new urologist this week so im hoping to be able to get a few more answers then as well.