first timer, very nervous, scared

[layne]

hi
im just wondering if any one is/was as nervous as me,well such a long story!
my hi school sweet heart have been together since we were 14 years old, we both have been having unprotected sex no contraceptions for 10 years. am ready to have a baby but will have to look at going down the road of seeing a specialists. all my friends and family have children and now everytime i hear my friends are pregnant i am excited for them but also deep down im hurting cos its not me! i have been very down and depressed for some time and hubby has decided we see a specialist.
i think he may have a low sperm count, has anyone had any successful news thru treatment. i think will my dream to have a family with the man i love ever happen?

[HunterzMummy]

awww hunnie, there are HEAPS of success stories on here. It is a tough journey but you will get there :hugs: you just need to stay positive and focused. And just take one day at a time. So first look at the specialist narrowing down and finding out wat is actually wrong. Have you had no test done on either of you?

I personally have just come out the other side of the TTC journey. It is avery hard tough one that really shows you what you are made of. But my persistance paid off and imnow 9wks preg with twins:D

Good luck hunnie and keep us posted with what happens and if you have any questions ask away, i will helpyou as best i can and there are plenty of other beautiful ladies who understand as they are going through the same or similar things:hugs:

AWWW and i forgot to say a massive WELCOME TO BUBHUB :)

[layne]

oh my first reply, omg my this has bort a tear to my eye to see that im actually seeking some support its very overwhelming.
this is the first time i have opened up to anyone, havent spoken a word about this issue to anyone but my hubby who is very supportive!!
i am surrently at work and not doing a thing as i am on here and feel a weight lifted off my shoulder by expressing this feeling issue to others who have been on this road before!

last year we visited our local GP who referred me to a gynocologists, i also got ultra sound test - everything came back normal. then hubby was asked to get a sperm test which he was very nervous about, we done the test took it to the pathology lab which was 30mins away. test came back it his sperm count was low. after that news we never really took the next step which was to visit the fertility clinic for further tests and to see a specialists. I guess we both we upset and gave up. We both talked last nite after finding my very close girl friend is pregnant, i was so happy but sad. Do we need a GP referral to see a specialist?what are the steps?

Congrats on the twins very exciting news!!
thank you for responding to my thread!!

[HunterzMummy]

You will find the ladies in the TTC threads just amazing and real pillars of strength.

The hardest thing is opening up but im glad you have as thats the first and most hardest step to do. But dont be ashamed hun we are all here to help ;)

Yeah you will deffinatly have to go back to your GP and get a referal for your specialist. And then begin your journey for ur precious little bundle.

With out TTC journey the issued lay with me as i had PCOS. And i felt so betrayed by my body and like a failure not being able to give my husband the very thing that he wanted, and i know for a man he may possibly feel like his man hood is at stake. he may be consumed with feelings of hurt and incopetence for not being able to fulfill the very desire of the love of his life. And we all know what man are like with talking about there feelings LOL :p so a counsellor might help him and you guys stay positive. :) just an idea..

Cant wait to read the :bfp: thread from you :D

[layne]

ok first thing tomorrow i will book an appointment with our GP and get a referral, definately something i need to do is stay focused and positive! will keep u posted on the new journey!

thankyou for listening its such a relief!!
:)