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MeeG

14-07-2006, 17:04

okay there is no mistaking me and my ex would love to go one on one in a boxing ring lol....

wasnt always like that i used to beg him for us to be friends and he jus rejected me time and time again so finally i gave up stopped talking to him and that gaves him the "poo's" so thats when we strated fighting and he told me i was being horrible pffft (grrrrr )

anyways i said im not gonna stop u from seeing your kid okay, ive asked u for help finacially and emtionally n got nothing so leave me alone for the next 6 weeks cause everytime i'd talk to him surprise surprise he would upset me, i havent spoken to him for 3 weeks and then he msged me asking how scared i was... and my immediate reaction was p**s off, but then i felt bad maybe he does geuniely care this time.... but why should talk to him he jus tries to upset me when he disagrees with and says horrible things.... and says how can u do this to your daughter gaaa!! am i stupid for hoping this is the time he realise hes been a jerk and starts wanting to help me? or should i wait til shes born and ope for smooth sailing then.... i really dont wan start talking to him yet it jus upsets me but i dont want to be selfish HEEEELLLLPPPP!!:banghead:

Sarak7

14-07-2006, 17:30

Niki

14-07-2006, 17:53

mayb he does care and has grown up and mayb he hasnt.....the only way to find out is to talk to him

EskimoMumma

14-07-2006, 18:02

I reckon you should be weary of him right now..

Just focus on you and bub and if he wants to help you he will come to you and make the first move.
Don't let your emotions get in the way.

All i can really say is just be weary..;)

Exactly. Be cautious. Dont have your head in the clouds about this nonesense. Listen to your head and heart

Chanelc

17-07-2006, 20:52

You are not being selfish you need to look after you and your baby. He hasn't respected your request of being left alone. He needs to give you space and himself space. Stay strong and listen to what YOU want - he will try every emotional string to get you to react.... don't react until you feel ready.
You know what you want so believe in yourself and know we are all hear to listen.

Cheers
Cheryl 33yrs
Chanel 7 months:sleeping:

SassyMummy

19-07-2006, 23:26

I think you should only speak to him on a NEED TO KNOW basis.

If, for example, you're going in for an ultra sound or other appointment, let him know (and if you want him to come, invite him along...perhaps if he actually gets to attend something like that he might wise up a little) and let him know the results of the appointment.

I wouldn't bother talking to him for any reason other than that...until the time comes that he actually DOES care about the baby.