Pregnant and sad...

[ThatsNotMyName]

I tested yesterday after having painful cramps and nausea for a few days and got a :bfp:

We didnt plan on having any more than the three kids we already have and I was worried about telling my dh...

I didnt expect him to shake his head and say "i dont want to know about it" :confused:

He later said he was sorry be he was just shocked but maybe he only said that because I was upset. I know we didnt plan it but we are both to blame so the way I see it is we might as well move on and accept we are going to have 4 kids.

I just wish he could have at least said it will be okay and we will get thru it :crying:

Thanx for letting me vent

[CrystalMumOfTwo]

:hugs::hugs:I think it is easier for men to ignore cause they dont have the bubba growing inside them and all the cramping and sick feelings.

:hugs::hugs: I hope he is more supportive for u soon.

Maybe u can have a nice chat about how u are feeling tonight?

[LuvMy4Babes]

I'm sorry. What a hard situation. Unplanned pregnancies are so very testing on a relationship. I had an unplanned pregnancy which we were both very very upset about, then sadly miscarried and felt horrible because I always felt that our negative vibes were what contributed to the loss. Of course that's not true but it felt like it at the time.

I hope you can come to a happy place in all of this.

Big hugs and best of luck to you x

[musicalmummy]

Hey it was probably just a shock to him, esp if like you said you weren't planning on anymore.

When i feel pregnant with ds, and it was unplanned and through protection, my dh said o s*** i need to go up to the shed for a rum and a smoke and have a think about it.

After a while he was fine about it and jsut absolutely adores ds and would never go back.:hugs: