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Moxy
06-09-2009, 08:46
Hi all, first post here but have lurked for a few weeks. DH & I decided it's time to "give it a crack" (my words not his)....after about 6 months of me talking him round. Small achievement in itself :) Last month was first month of TTC and having kept track of when AF had arrived since Jan, was pretty confident in the 28-30 day cycle (with one month where I forgot to track...was 70 days over 2 cycles...long, but an anomoly). Anyways, last AF was 4th Aug so timed the BDs for the middle of the month (about 4 or 5 times from the 15th onwards). Now I'm sitting here, AF was due on the 1st (roughly). I didn't get the usual PMS (tears, tantys and sore boobs). Had cold-like symptoms (stuffy nose, feeling faint & mildly nauseous) in couple weeks after the official BDs as well as very minor cramping in lower right side of abdomen but all 8 million HPTs (well....7 of them...) have come back BFN. I've read on here other hubbers who haven't had BFP until weeks and weeks afterwards. I don't know if I can wait that long!! And I thought the TWW was hard......:( Anyways. Desperately wish AF would hurry up so we can try again.

Budgielover13
06-09-2009, 20:39
Hi Moxy!

I wish you all the luck with getting the BFP you're hoping for, but one thing I have learnt during this process is no matter how much you want a quick result, it won't happen. It's a very long draw out process this trying to conceive thing, and everything happens in it's own time and there's nothing you can do about it. So do your best to keep busy and take your mind off how long it's taking.

Anyway, once again Good Luck.

Moxy
07-09-2009, 17:38
Thanks Budgie. Got AF this morning so at least I know where I'm at. Bought a thermometer today and am going to start charting temps etc. That was a 35 day cycle (compared to usually 28-30!!). Who knows what this month will bring. Round two....ding ding!:)