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tinytyler
04-09-2009, 15:44
Your going to say at the end of this, how did I not know... But trust me I didnt have a clue and it really does happen to some out there.

After splitting with my than partner of 3 years I decided it was my turn to do all the things I wanted in life. I took a job doing bar work so I could get all my certs and travel doing jobs here and there along my way. After 5 months I noticed I was always getting bloated and guessed it was from my new contraception pill. I went along to my doctors appointment and sat there happy as, and remembering my night before and meeting this wonderful man and partying all night. Once in the doctors room, he asked me to lay down after I had explained I wanted to change pills. He felt around and than quickly said I need to go for a scan because I look about 17 weeks pregnant. I was absolutely shocked. Up til this point I was not craving anything, I hadn't put on weight, had my menstrual's every month like clock work. My doctor couldnt explain. I cried the entire time thinking how do I ring my ex after we hadnt spoken for over 4 months. To cut along story short I found out from the scan that I was 23 weeks pregnant. And my world changed dramatically. I went into early labour and my little boy was at 32 weeks. Thankfully he made it through and is now nearly two with no signs of holding back on the world. I am stil with that wonderful man I met before finding all this out and my ex loves having Tyler on his weekends off. I never was one to think about having children but now I couldnt imagine not having him in my life. I was pregnant with my second 5 weeks ago and had reached the 20 week mark with ease. But he too decided to hurry into the world. Our little boy sadly did not make it. I have seen doctors after doctors and no one could give me an explanation on why I can not carry full term. I am determined to give my now fiance a little one of his own and havent given up and have faith I will have a beautiful baby soon. Thinking positive.

Beckybug
04-09-2009, 18:45
I couldn't read and not give you a few of these.

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

I don't know anything much about pregnancy and early labour, but did they look at an incompetent cervix??? I have heard this can cause women to not be able to carry to term.

Emi
04-09-2009, 19:00
sending lots of hugs and kisses!!!!

im sorry to hear about you loss... and i hope that you find the answers your looking for soon!!!
good luck hun!!!

keep your head up high!!!

MagicalLeopluradon
04-09-2009, 19:57
Wow, thanks for sharing your story. I am so sorry to hear of your loss and I hope you find the answer you are looking for soon :hugs::hugs:

Mummita
05-09-2009, 00:19
So sorry for your loss. I have Lupus and both my bubs came early (quite common for people with Lupus). I wish you all the best and hope that doctors can work out why you deliver early :hugs:

faery jo
10-09-2009, 12:40
thankyou for your story,, sorry for your loss,, i feel you will be blessed with your wish for another child,, perfection takes time (something my mum said to me with my last loss) ,,,, i hope for the calming and healing energies of the world to flow over you and help you find the anwers to your questions,, may you be happy and blessed x

melannh
16-09-2009, 19:46
I found your story really interesting - and refreshing.
So happy to read that you have a special man in your life now - and a lovely 2 yr old.
I am sorry for your recent loss too.

Question
Were your periods different at all?? Now that you are able to look back on the experience? I believe you didn't know - i have heard of it before.....