bouncing from pure delight to dreaded fear perhaps its the hormones, thats my excuse.

[mumtobenumber3]

Hi,
I'm about to turn 35 and have a beautiful boy aged 7 and a gorgeous girl aged 6. We thought life was just settling in to our careers (I am a small business owner). We thought we had finished having babies until BANG here we are again!! Hubby and me are bouncing from pure delight to dreaded fear perhaps its the hormones, thats my excuse. I was hoping there is someone out there who might understand how I'm feeling.
Any one??
:crying:

[mykidzrokk]

Oh, i'm sorry ur feeling this way.......i'm sure it is just the hormones. I'm assuming the pregnancy was accidental....in that case, u mustn't feel guilty about ur feelings as u and ur DH obviously had ur lives as u would have chosen and could see the future and now it has been thrown into chaos and everything will change....but i'm sure that when the new bubba is in ur arms, u wont imagine life without him/her.....is ur age a factor?? I am about to turn 35, too....i have 3 kids, the youngest is 3...i would love to have another, my age freaks me out.....lol.....i'm on MSN if ya wanna chat anytime....good luck with it all, and do allow urselves to work thru all the emotions, guilt free.

[mumtobenumber3]

I know that when bubs is here all apprehension will disappear. You have three children, is it harder then two??
My age is/was an issue part of me says 35 I am to old, but I know I am not. A girl I know has just been in my shop, she is also 35 and just found out that she is also pregnant due a week after me. It must be something in the water because she wasn't planning either.
I appreciate the supporting letter and that you took the time to answer my plea of emotional insanity.
Muchly appreciated!