Daddys of 3 or more! HELP!

[mumma_jessy]

Ok Dads, i've been trying to talk my man into having #3. I've done research and had a lot of mums telling me positive things, but no answers from dads, which my man is worried about!

So Dads of 3 or more, tell us what you think! Is 3 really that much more work than 2, much more expensive, etc etc?

A BIG thankyou for answering!

[RuthK]

Jessy

I'm a mum but can tell you that since #3 arrived (third in 3 years) my hubby has done very little extra to help than he did with #1. I'm carrying the lot. He seems to think he can still do sport and work nights out at the same as when he was single. I'm slowly going around the bend!

R

[kymmy]

I don't think a third child makes much difference!
My husband hasn't had to do much more like Ruth said.
The difference is he wants more kids.
Financially I think it goes up more after 3 kids if you need to get a bigger car and house.

[daisyxs]

hi, my dp is 37 and we r currently trying for our #2 but his#4 :eek:
so it cant be that bad
daisy