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cheezelkat
03-07-2006, 23:37
I've had such an awful day.

It started well. DS went for his midday nap, and we were all happy and well. At 2pm, he woke, fed and started getting cranky. I rocked him, sang to him, let him se my breasts as a comfort...no go. I suspect teething.

At around 7pm, I decided to give him a bath to help soothe him. I normally use a little chair for him to lie in so I can bathe him. However its for younger babies and he was getting frustrated by it, so I slipped his head into my hands do he could splash around. All of a sudden, he rolled onto his tummy and his head was under water.
I immediately pulled him out of the bath, where he was coughing and spluttering and crying. I wrapped him in a towel, continued cuddling him and rang DF to ask him to come home from work ASAP. I told him what had happened and started crying uncontrollably. I know DS was with me the entire time and it was just a silly mistake, but I was so scared of what could have happened.

My little cousin drowned a few years ago when she was 5 years old so I'm terrified of the same happening to my son. Its taken a further 5 1/2 hours to get DS to go to sleep and I'm still shaked up and scared. My partner was no help at all in soothing my son and I'm stressed by how long it took him to settle down. Now I have to do the dishes, prepare the nappy bag and put the washing on. It's been such a long and stressful day and all I want to do is to curl up and have someone comfort me.

Charlie
03-07-2006, 23:42
:hugs: I hope you are feeling betta soon...try & leave today behind & think only of tomorrow :thumbsup:

Cheeky Little Monkey
03-07-2006, 23:45
Awww you poor thing. Its a frightening thing that happened, but your little baby is OK. We all get a little spooked at times with the bath time thing especially when they cop a mouth full of water. Hope you feel better soon.

damien's mum
03-07-2006, 23:46
Aww, you poor thing, we all go thru days like you have had today.
I cant understand your fear, of Ur ds rolling onto his tummy, and going under the water, as that has never happened to me, but i take ds in the shower with me, for the fact, that i am scared something will happen.

Hope tomorrow brings you a much better day...
Keep your chin up, and look forward babe, if you need to chat, im here!

Alicia
xo

JenNT
03-07-2006, 23:47
Hey Kat, I did this 7 years ago with my daughter and I have never forgotten the sickening feeling of what if.I know how you are feeling right now but don't beat yourself up over it.It was just his first swimming lesson,he would've been shocked but no harm done.;)
Tommorow is a new day:yes: cheers Jen

ann n mick
03-07-2006, 23:48
hi dont stress my little man done the same thing he turned out to be scared of the baby bath so i had to take hom into yhe shower with me i slowley got him to play in the baby bath again now he loves both you r not a bad mum do house work in the morning go to bed and relax he is fine now

Mamaduke
03-07-2006, 23:48
You poor thing...:hugs:
The whole ordeal probably shook you up more than your little bubba, and your emotions and body language was the most likely reason he was stressed out a little too.
I know how frightening it is to see your child in water - it happened to us while we were on holiday in Queensland. Lucas ran into the kid's pool and fell forward. He was face down in the water but was picked up very quickly by my Mum a.k.a "Super Nanny" - ever see "Meet the parents" when the mother jumped into the pool after her daughter was hit in the face with the volleyball - that was my Mum that day!!
I'm sure he'll be fine and we all make mistakes - it was an accident, don't beat yourself up about it.

reAllytee
03-07-2006, 23:59
Big :hugs: :hugs: to you.
Try not to worry because thats what he is sensing easy for me to say i know :o
Tomorrow is a new day & will be much better !

cheezelkat
04-07-2006, 00:23
Thanks everyone :hugs:

Being a mum can be the best and worst job in the world at times I think!

JnA
04-07-2006, 00:25
With a day like that tomorrow will bring huge smiles... just you wait and see. :hugs:

Jamily
05-07-2006, 08:16
Oh hun

What a shock for you although you are certainly not the first Mum to have something like that happen to her. Once Emily slipped right under too and was extremely annoyed, but probably more because I was so distressed myself. Ironically a week later we started swimming lessons (at 6 months old) and they got us to dunk her all the time! Granted, it was a much more controlled environment but the point is that there was no harm done.

Don't beat yourself up - everyone has a time when something happens that they get upset over, but our bubs are a lot more robust than we think :)

If that is the worst thing that has happened in the last 5 months then I would say you were doing a spectacular job...

:hugs: