LoveULilly
21-08-2009, 13:45
Ok so here's the thing don't know if it will seem petty or not but im still fustrated by it n need to vent
Ok so the LAST issue with SIL has pushed me ova the edge.. What happened was she calls up my DP to tell him she's pregnant again her recent MC
caused a lot of probs within the fam so I was just like ok cool when he told me anyways...
she's on my facebook even tho she's neva online and when she is I don't really speak to her much...we don't see his family at all really. well the couple weeks ago my staus was quite blunt sayin "i can see how this will turn out and if my girl suffers you will too".. intended for my bestie who was ment to be bubs godmother about an argument we had earlier that day (prob not the best idea but i see it as my staus is my opinion and i made a point not to name names)
Well after changing my status to the above, uploading some photos n doing a few quizes i get a call from my DP as soon as i answer the phone he yells you can get that off you facebook rite now...honestly not knowing what he was talking about i start to yell back and finally get outta him that hes talking about my status..
Turns out SIL was online as i posted and rang him straight away "dobbing" on me for writting stuff about her..after a screaming match with DP then a civil convo i end up changin my status and msgin SIL sayin that is was not about her at all and politly adding that if she thought it was she should of asked me coz it caused me and DP to have an argument about nothing.
A few minutes later i get a phone call from her screaming and yelling ...so i say over the top of her Look im 28wks preg spend the whole day home alone im not gonna have u yelling at me, speak to me when DP is home and hung up.
Then after speaking to my DP again saying she wasnt being nasty she just wanted to see wats wrong she msges me saying that she can call her brother when ever she wants pregnant or not and i have no rite to upset everyone else and then say thats not what i was talking about i need to grow up and deal with the drama i cause myself and get some concelling.
Seriously wtf...
1. Yeah she can call her bro when ever she wants but not to ***** about me.
2. Wtf does her being pregnant got to do with any of this..besides the fact she feels the need to over shadow my pregnancy with hers
3. I dont hav the rite to upset anyone else, but thats not what i was doing..i neva speak to her and didnt mention her name at all..so its her own fault shes upset coz shes the 1 who jumped to conclusions.
3. I wasnt causing drama i was speaking my mind if i had said some1s name i wld be causing drama..and she was the one who blew 1 little sentance into ww3
4. How dare she say i need councillin shes the one that thought the whole world was out to get her im fine..maybe just need to think anout the godmother issue a little more but thats it!
I Just couldnt believe she would say things like this to me because of her irationallity. who says that to anyone let alone a pregnant girl...and on the same day i had to have a blood test (i hate needles) so i was already stressed.
Just UGH what a cow!! she has to make everything about her i can see the last 10wks of my pregnancy she is gonna be trying to make everyone fuss over her. GRRR!!:hair:
sorry if any of this doesnt make sence i dont type well wen im angry
Ok so the LAST issue with SIL has pushed me ova the edge.. What happened was she calls up my DP to tell him she's pregnant again her recent MC
caused a lot of probs within the fam so I was just like ok cool when he told me anyways...
she's on my facebook even tho she's neva online and when she is I don't really speak to her much...we don't see his family at all really. well the couple weeks ago my staus was quite blunt sayin "i can see how this will turn out and if my girl suffers you will too".. intended for my bestie who was ment to be bubs godmother about an argument we had earlier that day (prob not the best idea but i see it as my staus is my opinion and i made a point not to name names)
Well after changing my status to the above, uploading some photos n doing a few quizes i get a call from my DP as soon as i answer the phone he yells you can get that off you facebook rite now...honestly not knowing what he was talking about i start to yell back and finally get outta him that hes talking about my status..
Turns out SIL was online as i posted and rang him straight away "dobbing" on me for writting stuff about her..after a screaming match with DP then a civil convo i end up changin my status and msgin SIL sayin that is was not about her at all and politly adding that if she thought it was she should of asked me coz it caused me and DP to have an argument about nothing.
A few minutes later i get a phone call from her screaming and yelling ...so i say over the top of her Look im 28wks preg spend the whole day home alone im not gonna have u yelling at me, speak to me when DP is home and hung up.
Then after speaking to my DP again saying she wasnt being nasty she just wanted to see wats wrong she msges me saying that she can call her brother when ever she wants pregnant or not and i have no rite to upset everyone else and then say thats not what i was talking about i need to grow up and deal with the drama i cause myself and get some concelling.
Seriously wtf...
1. Yeah she can call her bro when ever she wants but not to ***** about me.
2. Wtf does her being pregnant got to do with any of this..besides the fact she feels the need to over shadow my pregnancy with hers
3. I dont hav the rite to upset anyone else, but thats not what i was doing..i neva speak to her and didnt mention her name at all..so its her own fault shes upset coz shes the 1 who jumped to conclusions.
3. I wasnt causing drama i was speaking my mind if i had said some1s name i wld be causing drama..and she was the one who blew 1 little sentance into ww3
4. How dare she say i need councillin shes the one that thought the whole world was out to get her im fine..maybe just need to think anout the godmother issue a little more but thats it!
I Just couldnt believe she would say things like this to me because of her irationallity. who says that to anyone let alone a pregnant girl...and on the same day i had to have a blood test (i hate needles) so i was already stressed.
Just UGH what a cow!! she has to make everything about her i can see the last 10wks of my pregnancy she is gonna be trying to make everyone fuss over her. GRRR!!:hair:
sorry if any of this doesnt make sence i dont type well wen im angry