No BD :-(..................

[emma2938]

hey girls,

well this may be TMI, but i am so depressed, AF finished days ago and I O next Tuesday and we havent been having any BD cos my DH's "you know what" is sore! He hurt himself. SO FRUSTRATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :banghead: :banghead:

Anyway just wanted to vent. He reckons by Saturday or Sunday he'll be fine.

What do you girls think, do you reckon we still have a shot if we BD only the few days leading up to O and on O day? ?? I was so planng this month to BD every second day from the day AF finishes. :mad:

[Little_Toad]

You should be fine with a Sunday and monday playtime.

[Babydancinglikemad]

I'm finding it very strange and somewhat annoying that now I want to BD like mad(hence the name), he doesn't. But when i dont want to, he really does,

[Little_Toad]

People want what they can't have, so if you pretend you don't want it he'll come running!

[Hokey Pokey]

That's a good tactic :laughing:

[luckymama]

yup that tactic def works :p
But i have told my DF that now its everyday, since partial ferning has started, and i dont want to miss the eggie.

Sorry to hear the Emma, but you should def be fine :fingerscrossed:

[twitch]

I was wondering if you BD every day leading up to O and the day of and the day after (say 5 days), does it increase your chances of conceiving or not really? I heard it won't because you're getting all the "slow" sperm, like they haven't had time to mature, but surely if you're doing it more often you're increasing your chances just by increasing the numbers? Any ideas?

[whitsundaysmumma]

Can't wait, I get so confused too, we basically try and stick to every 2nd day of BDing from about Day 14, because I seem to ovulate around Day 18, 19. For instance, I got a positive home opk test today(day 17) so we baby danced this morning and we will again tomorrow morning and we' probably that will do it for this time around. Does your head in doesn't it?

Emma2938, absolutely reckon you will catch that egg definately get going over the weekend, he's got a lot of catching up to do! Look forward to testing with you for our BFP on the same day, now I am definately not testing before then, can you hold off too?

[TJ]

If you cant actually have sex coz he is sore, you cuold always try the 'Turkey Baster' method?? I think every 2nd day should be fine.

[whitsundaysmumma]

:yes: Yep TJ , there is a thread on that, wouldn't know how to attach it to this message though?? I thought I'd read everything, people have been successful though!

[nuddle]

I always thought every second day, leading up to O is the biggest chance of conceiving

[emma2938]

Emma2938, absolutely reckon you will catch that egg definately get going over the weekend, he's got a lot of catching up to do! Look forward to testing with you for our BFP on the same day, now I am definately not testing before then, can you hold off too?

hey lissylou - yep i will definietly hold off!!! We have to be strong together and agree to wait and test on the sme day...deal?????:thumbsup:

[whitsundaysmumma]

owww! my arm, you've twisted it emma, no testing until the 17th July. Confirmed!