Angry at Husband.

[onesadmum]

I am so very mad at my husband right now.
To the point that I think our marriage is over.
I can't stand to be in the same room as him, look at him and I haven't and will not touch him.

When he tries to talk to me I start by being civil, but end up in a crying mess shouting hysterically at him.
I just flip out completely.

This is sad and scary for our children. It's sad and scary for me. Him I really don't care about right now.

Dose counseling help? Should I consider doing it?
Please help me:(

[onesadmum]

He is laying in bed sleeping right now. I want to sleep too but can't because I have to deal with all this hurt.
I want to go and wake him up and yell some more at him.
:geek:

[Moops]

Hey hun, sorry you're going through this :kiss:. Sounds like you guys have a lot of unresolved issues that you really need to talk about, you can't carry on feeling like this.

I agree that it isn't nice for your kids to see you fighting and upset and you need to ask yourself whether you think the relationship is worth saving. I would recommend going to counselling, what do you have to lose?

Hope things get better, we are always here if you need to chat x

[Teley]

He is laying in bed sleeping right now. I want to sleep too but can't because I have to deal with all this hurt.
I want to go and wake him up and yell some more at him.
:geek:

Hey I completely can relate to the feeling of wanting to wake someone up and yell at the some more. However, just try and do something else to release your anger - maybe write in a journal - because waking up somebody to yell at them is really counterproductive and just makes them upset and cranky at you.

Also, maybe writing in a journal will help to sort of ........ make you see exactly where your anger is stemming from.

:hugs::hugs::hugs:

[squiglet]

I clean. My house becomes very clean when I am angry at dh.
I also get out of the house for a walk. Clears the mind a bit.
:hugs::hugs::hugs:

[Kerry35]

Please make arrangements to have a chat to a relationship councellor....first by yourself and then ask your husband to come along at a later date.

Whatever you do, do NOT fight in front of the children. It scars them emotionally for life.

The sooner you do this, the better for everyone involved.

It's very important for you and your children's sakes that you resolve these issues with your husband once and for all.

Good luck.:hugs:

[Countrydeb]

I have to agree with the other girls here,go see someone....talk,cry,vent at this person,they are trained to listen and give you feedback,they allow you to have all these feelings,it is very hard for anyone else to know completely how YOU feel so it's understandable to feel lost,hurt,angry,sad,guilty etc for whatever is or was going on.....I see one for a few issues and that hour with him is the only time i feel completely honest with myself without feeling guilt or worrying about someone's else's feelings.....you owe this to yourself

[Lastcenturymum]

I'm closing this thread now following communication with the OP - she thanks you for your comments and things are on the improve :thumbsup: