Miscarraige #3

[v8mum]

Hello there i am new to this. A friend told me about this site and said it might help me.
I have just had my 3rd miscarraige 6 weeks ago. My 2nd was last sept. :( For weeks i didnt want to talk to anyone or see anyone. I have one little boy who is 4 1/2. I bled at 8 wks and at 12wks when preg with him.At the time i didnt think anything of it and was happy to wait to try for baby #2.
Now i wish i hadn't waited so long. My husband was so great with the first misc but with he 2nd he seemed to be angry and upset and i don't blame him because this has taken its toll on me as well. I have had numerous blood tests and scans done over the last couple of weeks to find out if there is a problem but nothing can be found.:banghead:
I am sick to death of the doctors just saying to me this is what happens sometimes, natures way. Aaaahhhh. I cry all the time and i am going to just try again because i get so angry with myself when i think about wanting another baby. I don't have any problems with getting preg. I fall 2nd month in, its just keeping them. I know that no-one can help me but after seeing this website i didn't feel alone anymore. Just had to tell someone and this felt like a good way. Don't think i could go to a counsellor and talk. Thankyou to whoever has listened.

[Mum&bubs]

Hey honey you are not alone :hugs: :hugs: and i am glad you have found bubhub so now you know that. I've had 1 miscarriage so i know how that sense of loss feels but keep strong & stay with it :fingerscrossed: There are plenty of people myself incuded on bubhub to talk to & support you through these dfficult times.

[Blessed Mum]

Welcome. You will always find caring listening ears & hearts here at bubhub:yes: . I am very sorry to hear of your losses.

:hugs: Tara

[Hokey Pokey]

So sorry to hear you lost another baby :crying:
I know what you are going thru, and I wish I could answer your questions about getting bubs to stay but I have no idea either sorry.

[Bel1978]

Hope you feel better soon, i have also had 3 M/C although no baby for us yet. I was told that too at first but now i have been told that i have some type of blood condition. The 1st M/C that i had i was told the same thing. Now that i have a Ob he found a problem. Some times i guess they can say it happens but it depends on who you see.

[dna13]

I am so sorry to hear of your losses.:crying: I have recently had a m/c myself so i know somewhat of the pain you might be going through. I know all too well of the guilt feelings that come about after a m/c so i totally empathise with you. But we must be strong and try to stay positive. Although it is so, so hard.

Please don't lose hope of having another healthy little bub. My thoughts are with you and your family and i wish you all the best for the future.:hugs:

[kyliev]

:wave: Hi and welcome,
You are at the right place! We all know to some degree or another what you are going thru. I just went back to my GP today after miscarriage 7 weeks ago, as I am still having some bleeding, and i wanted them to say lets send you to a ob, but instead I was put on antibiotics for an "infection", which is what happened to me before I got pg. So dr's family and even friends dont always say the right thing, and it hurts at times- because no-one wants to think it is natural to lose their baby. I hope that we can help you thru this time- I know that posting on this website and the bits of advice I have had have helped me feel normal thru this most unnormal (is that even a word!!) of times
:hugs: Kylie

[v8mum]

I would just like to say a big thankyou :hugs: to all that have posted replys to me. I was having a bad day when i first wrote and knowing that you have all sent warm wishes to me makes me want to cry. I too am sorry for your losses but hearing all your positive thoughts has helped me to see some light at the end of the tunnel. I too hope that i can be there for you.
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[kadownie]

I'm so sorry for your loss- I can't even imagine the pain you must feel. I just wanted to suggest considering Chinese Medicine- I was reading an article in the latest Notebook magazine that discussed the successes lots of women have had using Chinese Medicine- sounded very promising!

Best wishes to you!

[chindonly]

Hey there,

I've also had 3 m/c's myself and it is a horrible place to be. Like you I too dont like to talk about them too much because it is too raw.
My first was in 2003 then another but a molar preg in Sept last yr which meant I had to wait 6 mths before even ttc again! And a third time about 6 weeks ago now:gloomy:
I know exactly how you are feeling and I understand what you say about Drs telling you it is just natures way.
Keep your chin up, believe me you'll be ttc'ing again. It is amazing just how strong we are when we dig deep enough into ourselves!