advice please =)

[melab]

I stopped taking the pill at the beginning of the year as my hubby & i were planning to start ttc later this year, we sorta started a little bit earlier than planned but not charting or anything like that yet.

i had short cycle(3 weeks) my 1st one of bc, then a long one (5 weeks) then another long one (6weeks)...so i assumed my cycle would remain longish.

anyway so i was waiting for af to come, all the signs were telling me it was coming, a few times i could have sworn i felt it come on...but nothing... i did a hpt when i was 3 days late and was :bfn:. that afternoon i had a light pinkish brown discharge for 4 days when af was supposedly due(6 weeks after last one). then went to the dr and had a blood test which was 8 days late. got the results today, came back :bfn:. still no sign of af...

the last couple of weeks i have been feeling nauseous, made worse by eating sometimes, also has light cramping, light head aches and have been tired alot more than usual.

what are the chances that i am pregnant and the tests are wrong? or maybe its too early for it to show for me?

HOW LONG DID IT TAKE FOR YOURS TO SHOW :bfp:?

any advice or experiences would be much appreciated:)

[The Bubble Tree]

HI, i hope your pregnancy test has come out positive by the time you read this?

:)

[Elestrial]

POAS tests can be wrong because they're picking up hormone in the wee that gets stronger the further into a pregnancy we get, so when you're first pregnant you might not have enough hormone for the test to pick up. I would think that if your blood tests are negative then you are NOT pregnant. The blood is exceptionally sensitive to the hormones so if it's a no then it's a no. That said I have heard of 1 person who's blood test was wrong - I wouldn't base any decisions on that though.

[feathergirl]

No advice or relevant experiences but wanted to send :hugs: and hope it gets clearer soon.