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shaz82
14-05-2009, 10:01
Right now i am not sure what to do. As most of you know we have been trying for bub number 3 for around 8 months now. And the fact that i got sharp pains about two months ago that were apparently a 'pulled mussel'
Well last night in bed Adam (hubby) asked me when i am going to go to the doctors to find out what is going on. He also said last night i should go and do it soon.
How ever as much as i want our last baby, with all that is happening with Dad (being in hospital and all and will need care and help once home as his g/f may have to start working again so i will be the only one able to help during the day) I am just not sure if now is the right time for me to be going and getting tested.
My thoughts were just keep doing what we are doing and not thinking about it.
If i got bad results I think it would break me. And right now i cant do that, people need me.

Silverbaby
15-05-2009, 09:01
Hi Shaz82

I think you need to talk to your DH and tell him how you feel. You just sound scared and stressed to be honest.

I would still go and get yourself chceked out though but definitely have a chat to your man. Lots of hugs :hugs:


Silverbaby