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gracewolds
16-06-2006, 05:29
Hi,

Just a vent,

I have been up since 5 am so I can have some me time before girls wake up. Catch up on this site - whihc is now my saviour and get ready for the day.

But I don't feel like going to work today, rather stay home and play with the girls. Daddys away again as he is every week and I simply want to be here. Do you often feel like this.

Have now had to increase girls care from 3 to 4 days to eran more after renovations and get us back on top of everything.

I don't think hubby relises what I go through, No concept of being a mummy, housewife and working - feel down about the pressure and guilty for the girls even though they have amazing care and are happy.

Anyway just wanted to vent

littlepumpkin
16-06-2006, 07:53
Gracewolds:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

Being a mum,working and wife is a big job, especially if your husband is away a lot but i'm sure you are doing a great job. Keep your chin up, i'm sure tomorrow will be a better day. You should do something fun with your girls tonight-pick up some take away, rent a movie and relax. Hope your day gets better:)

Worm'sMum
16-06-2006, 08:08
:hugs: Gracewolds I can understand where you are coming from...although I only have 1 DD at the moment. But I'm also working 3 days a week(also to pay for our renovations!), studying, so go to school 1 day and then trying to be the house keeper and mum!!! It's hard work isn't it. I'm actually wagging today myself - although both DD and myself are sick so there is actually a reason....but keep your chin up, everyday is different and it will get better. I like littlepumpkins idea about time with the girls tonight, or even plan something special for tomorrow.
Keep Smiling!!

gracewolds
16-06-2006, 20:23
Had a **** day at work and couldn't wait to leave and did as suggested. Daddy came home at 5.30pm after catching an early flight and we all got dressed and rugged up and walked around to the local chinese for dinner.

Stuck some chosticks up my nose - we all laughed as the girls copied me and everyone laughed at us. Then it hit me - everyone was watching us and laughing becaise we were having such a good time - which after your advice is what I set out to do and achieved, SO THANKS

Now - Off to bed with Hubby and the electric banket MMMM maybe Iwon't need the elctric blanky tonight!!

Sleep In Tomorrow

Sleep Tight

Me
17-06-2006, 09:05
I'm glad your day got better. Enjoy the weekend - make the most of it!