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Im only a little bit late and im pretty sure we BD right on, or the night before ovulation in April. So im hopeful that maybe we are in the early stages of pregnancy.
Im trying not to test until tomorrow but im soooooo anxious, nervous, excited and worried (all good!).
If the test comes back negative, thats ok, we just want to know. We will be a little disappointed, but we will be ok.
DH just said to me that he is nervous too as now he thinks i could very well be pregnant. Took enough convincing! I think i say it every month though.
I am not usually late. Last month i was actually a day early so im pretty sure im right with my dates. Ive had pangs of nausea on and off and i am trying sooooo hard to calm down.
Its just very exciting!
According to the charting i do, I would have ovulated on the 26th April. Do you think a test would show that yet? I have first response.
Ohhh good luck!:flowerz:
Well I would test if I was you!!
Oh and make sure you have the instructions on how to read your test lol otherwise it's just MORE confusing! !! :laughing: :laughing:
I would have tested already:laughing:
It could show a positive if you O'd when you did but it may also be too early.
I have my fingers crossed for you for tomorrows result:fingerscrossed:
Oh I hate threads like this. I can't even handle waiting for other people's results let alone mine. TEST! TEST! TEST! :laughing:
No, seriously, good luck with taking your test tomorrow. I have my :fingerscrossed: for you.
Oh yes I would test!
I got a BFP, 4 days before I missed my period with a FR test.
Best of luck!! :goodvibes::goodvibes:
oh yea it would definitely come up on a FR if you are pg!! test test test!!:yelclap:
Its more DH being a pain in the butt trying to keep me in reality!
Im trying so hard!!! I hope i can sleep tonight.
Ive had diarrhea most of last night and today so ive been drinking lots and obviously weeing lots so i want to do it with first morning urine.
Im on CD31 and i usually have a 29 day cycle.... so not very late, but unusually late.
Time will tell.... i am just full of nerves. I keep telling myself to calm down but i cant.
:fingerscrossed: best of luck for tomorrow STM.....this will be me next week.
Can diarrhea be a sign? I feel fine, apart from the nerves.
I was doing ok but now im not!
I had a session of my boobs tingling for a couple of minutes and then it started reminded me all over again!
Cmon morning!!! Cmon positive result!!! :fingerscrossed:
ive got my fingers crossed for you....:fingerscrossed:
its making me nervous and it not even me.
Breathe in..... Breathe out......
Only around 12 hours to go before you can test.
YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!! :D
You know, you might have diarrhea because your feeling nervous. I find the same thing happens to me when I feel like I have knots in my stomach.
Although, GO the tingly boobs. Hopefully that is a good sign....
Ok. I went to bed at 9.
I got up and did a wee at midnight, thinking id last until like 6am before another.
Woke up at 2am DYING for another wee so did the test then.
It was NEGATIVE. :gloomy:
This morning, im feeling like someone has ripped my boobs off from my chest, they are so sore, and i was sitting here just before and am trying not to vomit. My vjayjay has this aching, full sensation every now and then.
Oh, and still no Aunty Flo.
I still think there is a big chance i am preggers. I used a first response so yes, it should have shown up but maybe im just too early?
In reality, i would be 2.5 weeks from the day of conception. I know they add on the two weeks for last menstrual period.
Ive just never had symptoms like this before.....
I went for a period of 3 months at the end of 2007 where i had no period. I POAS alot! And always negative, and two blood tests were negative too. I was however on the pill, but stopped taking it when my period didnt arrive in the sugar pill week just in case i was pregnant.
This time, i havent been on the pill for 7 months, and havent missed a period since.
Is it possible that i am pregnant but its just not showing up?
I was just going to test in another few days if AF doesnt arrive. If by next week theres nothing ill go to the GP for a blood test. Maybe the urine tests are not going to work for me.
With DD (who is 5 today :flowerz: ), hers came up negative and its only when i went to the rubbish to throw it out i noticed the second line. It was past the evaporated time, but it was clear as. So i went to the doctor a few days later (and i had sore boobs too but not like this) and their urine test came up straight away.
So is it still possible?
Like i said, im a little disappointed that it didnt work out but im still slightly hopeful that i am pregnant because i just feel sooooo different to normal.
Thanks for listening
Yes it is still very possible that you are pregnant, it is still very early days.
Give it another couple of days and test again.
It ain't over till AF shows up.
Good luck, you have all the signs of being preggers :thumbsup:
Thanks Mell for giving me some hope. :flowerz::flowerz::goodvibes:
DH isnt being so great- he just doesnt get it. If the test is neg, it must be neg.
Would it have anything to do with the amount i need to wee? I have an extremely weak bladder and i go to the toilet about 30 times a day.
Ive just never felt symptoms this strong before of nausea, sore breasts and i have no feeling of period pains or anything today.
In my heart, i truly believe i am.
Some women have trouble with urine tests dont they! I guess 2.5 weeks is early..... im sure with DD i was like 4 weeks (over a week late). I cant remember.
Oh i just want to know!
Im really wanting to know because im Rh - and ive miscarried before and bled at 10 weeks with my DD and they think its to do with the blood types.... so i want to know so i can get to my ob to get my injections.
Oi.... come on little one, let me know your in there (if you are!). :babydust2:*confused self* :confused:
If your heart is telling you that you are, listen to it ;)
2 hours is way too soon, most instructions I have read say to either use FMU, or wait at least 4 hours before going to the toilet again. 2 hours your urine would have been very diluted.
I think I did the same thing as you about 4 nights in a row though :p:laughing: and one morning it was negative, went back to bed, got up a few hours later and looked and there was a faint faint line.. thought nah must be evap.. but just knew it wasn't.. few days later I was getting :bfp: and now I'm very pregnant!
Oh, and my dp was the same.. man it was great to tell him I told you so :raspberry:
yep, I got negatives.
Then a few days later I tested again and got really faint positive and DH kept telling me I was being silly and the line is so faint...
But I'm UTD and hoping with a sticky one this time :p
I got three negatives and a negative blood test in one day and then three positives and a positive blood test three days later with my first pregnancy :laughing: and I was around 6-7 weeks pregnant, so your hormones might just not be quite high enough as yet :D
It might just be that little bit too early. :fingerscrossed: for you!
I am pregnant and my first couple of tests were negative (after i missed my period).
I just felt something was up and still no period so i tested again and still negative so threw the test away.
I felt like i needed to look at the test again so went and fished it out of the bin (yeah i know - but i had to :o) and there was a faint line.
Figured it was nothing but tested again later and another very faint line :detective:
Waited a few more days and then the strong positive showed up.
So long story short - yes it is possible.
Good luck :babydust2:
Hi guys... hope you don't mind me joining! But definitely good to know I'm not the only one!
I'm still waiting for a :bfp: and if I am I will be around 6 weeks tomorrow! No AF at all..no signs of AF (other than the cramping which is also an early sign of being UTD!)!! I've done 4 tests - all negative! Went to the Dr last week and was told I may just have low levels so to come back in 2 weeks! Am eagerly awaiting going back next week in the hope a blood test will show something different! If I'm not then there is something crazy going on - nausea, cramping, headache that won't go away, exhausted (I'm 24 and going to bed at 8.30??) and this last week hello boobs!! They have just grown enourmous and are sore as hell!!!:laughing:
So i've been trying to find anything and seems that a few people don't find anything out until 7-8 weeks and it's not totally uncommon (I spend all day on internet at work researching!!) Though I have to say DP is quite clueless when it comes to any of this so as long as I tell him a negative isn't necassarily right he'll believe me!!:thumbsup:
STM where are you?!?!?!? The suspense is KILLING me!!! Are you ok, have you poas? AM thinking of you.:hugs::hugs::hugs:
Im here Moomum. I did the test at 2am this morning and it was negative.
I still believe its really possible im pregnant. Im now three days late. ID only be 2.5 weeks so probably not able to show much just yet.
So im just going to ride the next few days out and if nothing by next monday, and i still feel the same, ill go for the blood test.
Id just like to know.
Does anyone know how long i cant let it go if im Rh - blood type and my Dh is a positive blood type?
Im feeling a little calmer today but im thinking a negative might really mean the negative.
I just want too know. *sigh*
Strawberry milkshake, they would have given you the anti-d after your last pregnancy so I thought you are fine until the shot you have at 28 or 34 weeks or something?
Either way it's definitely not something you need at 5 or 6 weeks pregnant.
I'm rh neg too and was told I need a shot after each miscarriage or pregnancy as well as the shots through pregnancy in case my blood attacks the babies.
Unless you developed anti-bodies from having the babies blood mix with yours with your last pregnancy, but they normally test that I thought so you would know?
Ive had two pregnancies.
My first ended in miscarriage, i had no idea about the negative blood type.
Second pregnancy, my Ob got onto it at 10 weeks as id started to bleed again (same as first pregnancy) so i had the injections through the pregnancy too.
I just dont want to miscarry this baby...... if i even am pregnant!
Like the original title.... i need to calm down.
Honey you hang in there. It's an emotional roller coaster and it is VERY early. We are here for you to vent anytime, I'm holding your hand!
This is almost becoming my "nearly Pregnant Journal".
I woke up this morning and..... no period. Still. So now im on day 4 of being late.
Im just wondering that maybe im not pregnant, i mean the first response test would have picked up a 2.5 week pregnancy wouldnt it?
I did do it 2 hours after another wee.
I wish i knew!!!! I think if i am, we may nickname our bump 'GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR'!
Cmon little one, let me know if your here!!!!
ive ben watching this thread closely cause im in the same situation. it soooooooooo frustrating. my regular 28day cycle is now up to day 37 and ive had all the same preg feelings i did with dd. my hpg test resuts keep coming up neg, and i dont know whether to believe it or not. i got a clear positive with dd at only 5 weeks so i dont know. good luck!!!!:fingerscrossed:
Well it seems the journey is over.
AF has arrived. Well i think its arrived. Theres bleeding on and off.
So thanks for the support, ill just go let my heart break a bit more now.
I really, really, really believed i was pregnant. :crying:
Oh hun! I'm so sorry :hugs:
I was so hoping that this would be the month for you.....
We're really disappointed too. We really thought this was it.
I was hoping you were.
I had the same thing happen 3 months back, loads of symptoms and I was having these vivid dreams of being pregnant.. I so thought I was and was gutted, so I know how you feel.
Here's some more of these ones :hugs:
:hugs::hugs::hugs: I had everything crossed for you. You know where I am if you want to chat:hugs:
Thanks guys. It really looks like AF has reared her ugly head.
What are we doing wrong? Now the ever quiet, never say anything DH is saying 'i was just started to get excited!'. Thanks. Just break my heart in quaters in stead of halves.
Why cant we get it right? Have sex on / around ovulation and your set. Why isnt it working?
Why did i have alot of symptoms?
Why cant i get pregnant?
And just for the record, i know that some people have been trying, unsuccessfully, for many many more years than us so i shouldnt whine.... but right now im all cranky and emotional and i want attention, chicken soup and sympathy, just for today.
Oh honey I'm so, so sorry. And you are perfectly entitled to feel 'why me" this is your journey, no one would begrudge you feeling the way you are.
I wish I had answers and I wish I could say something more helpful. Alas I will give you the biggest hugs I can muster and hope this brings you a little comfort :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
Thanks ladies, i know this sadness will pass. I guess we are just a bit more disappointed than we first thought we would be.
We'll be ok we are just a bit sad.
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