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blackopal
04-05-2009, 14:57
Hi to all i have just joined and i am looking for someone wanting to have a baby or 2. This is just a bit about me and what i am after. i hope to hear from you soon, and hope to be posting happy news in the near future.

I am a (pisces), of African origin and been in Australia for a long time now. My decision is not something i have come about in just a few weeks or days, i have thought about it for over a year. I would love to get in contact with someone who will be willing to move closer to my area, is already in my surrounding area or who is in an area i am willing to move to (interstate will be considered but not overseas). Reason being i would very much like a father figure to always be in their lives. I am open to residing in the same house but it would have to be something discussed individually and with good reason for example: like for those who are not openly gay or just want to be closer to the child etc. There is to be no exchange of money so i am not out there asking to carry a gay mans child for money because i just want a child who is loved and appreciated by both parents. I will pass on more photos to individuals once we have a chat,

My personality is very out there, love to smile and so happen to be the clown at work and in my circle of friends. Love to just make people laugh and am easy to get along with. So that's just a bit of what i am searching for and i hope you don't hesitate to contact me with your requests for a chat. One thing i ask is for everyone who responds to be open with their questions. I am not easily offended so there is no question out of bounds (as i want everyone to be as comfortable as possible with who i am and the person within me).
D.O.B: 1981
Nationality: Australian
Height: 170
Occupation: Retail
Residential: Inner city Melbourne

Booo
04-05-2009, 15:04
I dont think this is allowed... This is a parenting an pregnancy forum, not a dating site?

blackopal
04-05-2009, 15:30
noo you got it wrong sorry. I am not looking for a guy to date. I am a lesbian who is willing to stay in the same home as a gay for the sake of our child or move close by. i checked other posts and found similar requests for a donor. the only difference is mine is a lot more detailed. I am not sure where you got the idea i am looking for a date but i am far from it. it looks like my search is already off to a bad start.

If the admin request i go i will comply, however so far i dont see what i have done wrong. Most of us here are or want to be parents so i am not sure where i went wrong.

Green Mum to be
04-05-2009, 17:10
blackopal,

made perfect sense to me. Might want to start it with "looking for a known sperm donor" then go into the preferring contact and longer spiel.

Goodluck! :babydust2:

blackopal
04-05-2009, 17:59
blackopal,
made perfect sense to me. Might want to start it with "looking for a known sperm donor" then go into the preferring contact and longer spiel.


Thank you. may i ask what you mean by "known sperm donor" do you mean sommeone i know or someone who has donated b4? I prefer a first timer/gay couple for i want them involved. i figured i should have a topic that grabs attention or gets you curious to read it and as for the wording i figured i dont want to waste anyones time so its best i be upfront as i do not like to dissapoint people. Do you think its best not to detail too much? This is my first time at this.

Green Mum to be
05-05-2009, 18:03
Well, i think the official wording is that you are looking for a 'co-parent'. As you are looking for a person/couple with whom you want to have a child and then share responsibilty for yet not have a sexual relationship with. Is that correct?

I think by definition an 'unknown sperm donor' is one who donates and then never wants to be contacted ever again.
Whereas a known sperm donor is one who will be known to the father now or in the future.

Does that help?

More information the better when it comes to looking for a donor so that anyone who replies is on the same page.

:thumbsup:

ontheway
06-05-2009, 10:59
Hi blackopal,
Check out this web page it might help.

http://www.co-parentmatch.com/

Good luck