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BI
02-05-2009, 18:03
It all started on the Sunday morning(19th April) when i got my show. I felt tired & really uncomfy all of Sunday. I'd phoned DH to tell him that it could be any time now & to be ready to come to Adelaide.

Monday morning (20th April) i woke (sorry TMI) feeling like i'd wet my pants. I wasn't sure if it was heavy discharge or not. I went to my chiro appt as planned, still had that leaking feeling so called Kays rooms & spoke to a MW. I went straight there & was seen by Kay, she confirmed my waters had broken but not totally. Kay then had to break my forewaters, not the most pleasant experience. This was at 11.30am, i was 1cm dialated. I then phoned DH & told him to get down here as we were having our baby today. Poor DH was in shock i think as he went very quiet.

I then drove to my MIL's to grab my bag & my friend was there waiting for me to drive me to the hospital. I got to the hospital at 12.30pm, they monitored bubs for about 30mins before starting the Oxytocin drip about 1pm.This is when i started to really feel the contractions & with one of them the rest of my waters gushed, was like niagra falls. Not long after this a MW came in to discuss pain relief & we ordered my epidural then. I made it through the 1st hour or 2 on my own then i went for the gas. At about 4.45pm i had my epidural put in, love the epidural. I did have a reaction to 1 of the drugs in the cocktail & couldn't stop scratching, i almost broke skin from scratching. I was confined to the bed at this point as they had to put the monitor on me.

Thankfully DH got to the hospital about 5.30pm, he was great, anything i needed he did. I felt so much more relaxed as soon as i saw him. At 6pm Kay came to check on me, i was now 3cm dialated. I was to be checked again at 10pm on my progress. By 8.30pm i had to cll the MW as the epidural was no longer working & i could feel the contractions again rather strongly. The MW did an internal & told me on the next contraction to push as she could feel bubs head. They then called Kay & gave me the option of a half top up on the epidural, i decided to take it.

So i began pushing with each contraction, i felt like i was going to pop a blood vessel in my head. DH kept a comforting hand on my shoulder & was offering me water between contractions. As much as i pushed i didn't feel i was getting anywhere. Then they told me they could see the head crowning, they put a mirror there so i could see for myself. After about 90mins of pushing Kay suggested maybe using the ventouse as bubs just wasn't getting over the ridge. I agreed as at this point i was exhausted. I could now feel bubs coming out & as bubs head was half way out i was told to stop pushing or i would tear. I have to say this was the most excrutiating pain i have ever felt, i was in tears at this point from the pain. As soon as they said to push again i pushed like a demon to get bubs out.

Bubs came out screaming at 10.02pm & was placed on my chest & they covered bubs in towels to get warm. It was at this point DH then told me it's a girl, DH also cut the cord. She was so beautiful & perfect, we have a daughter. I ended up with a small graze that needed 4 stitches. After she was weighed (2.920kg/ 6lb 7oz) & cleaned up we were left alone for some family time while i recovered.

On the Wednesday we were transffered to the Hilton as they have a floor set up with a MW. It was fantastic, so peaceful & gave us some quiet time together as a family before heading home. We were released on the Friday afternoon.

ImNotJustAnymum
02-05-2009, 19:30
Congratulations and well done on the birth of your little girl glad to hear DH was able to make it in time....

KittyKat78
05-05-2009, 18:18
Congratulations Blue Iris on the arrival of your daughter :smiliedance:
I enjoyed hearing your story and how lovely you waited to find out the gender of baby- so many people find out these days (which is fare enough) but after a exhausting birth I think it it nice to get that surprise, at the end of such hard work.

And how great DH arrived on time and you topped it off by staying at the Hilton-perfect. :bee:

Enjoy your 1st Mothers day on Sunday too!