Thinking about this wayyyyyy toooooo much!

[BabyDreaming]

Ok, so I know some of you know about my mid cycle BLEEDING (geez I whinge about it enough ;))

So it's like this...


We BD on CD7 and CD9 of this cycle. I was doing opk's this whole time, and while they never went 'positive', they were all relatively dark. I'm pretty sure I used pre seed on CD9 because I remember thinking it's what made me bleed IYKWIM.

I think it was CD14 when I started my mid cycle bleeding. It was only a little bit at the time and I just thought it was O spotting, so I kept doing opk's. I think it was CD15 when I did one and the line was heaps faint. I assume I hate O'd sometime inbetween then because of the colours. They were negative for a few days after (I kept testing to be sure)

If I used pre seed and BD'd on CD9, then according to websites, it still falls within theup to 5 days of sperm living inside. Could I have possibly caught the egg :eek:. I doubt it.

They say it takes about 7 days for the egg to implant, but it's not always the case (same as it's not the case that everyone O's on CD14)

So, just say I caught the egg. It would take me up to CD21 (give or take a few days for implantation. I can't remember what CD it was, but I had a spot of blood on my toliet paper. My first thought was that I nicked myself because I only shaved down there the day before (or earlier that day, I can't remember). But how would it have gotten THERE?
That would take me to about CD25 give or take a few days.

Today I am CD40 with no AF and no real signs of her. No signs of being pg either though.

If all the above was the case, it would be 15 days since the 'egg had implanted'. Remember that some BFP's don't show until they are like 6 weeks along!

I know that I am crazy and that there is NOWAY that this could be the case, but does anyone think there is a chance? lol

I POAS 2 nights ago and it was a bfn.


I feel silly lol :o

[ringneck]

Either you ovulated around that time and are pregnant or you haven't ovulated at all and that is why you haven't gotten af.
If af doesn't show in a week i'd go and get a bt.
I had this when we first started ttc and went 5 months without a period as i wasn't ovulating so it's always best to get it checked.
Good luck fingers crossed it's a bfp and the hpt's just aren't showing it atm.

[BabyDreaming]

Thanks ringneck.

This is the second cycle that has gone haywire. It just hasn't recovered from it yet.

I know there will be no BFP and this is just wishful thinking, but it's the only explanation I have to far lol

Sometimes I think I can feel af cramps, but they aren't like they usually would be, and I was pretty bloated last night. I'll give it another week because I am pretty sure she will show on her own, but if not, I will def be going to the docs.

I hope we both get our BFP's very soon :goodvibes:

[maybe1more]

Hey sweetie, i know how badly you want the BFP and can totally understand were your coming from, as my cycles are haywire too.
There is always a chance you could still be pregant, untill AF proves otherwise.
Have you tried taking Vitex to regulate your cycles? Ive started taking it again and it does help with long cycles. I take it from when Af finishes untill ovulation. Do you check your cervix at all? Sometimes i find it help to check the posistion of the cervix to see were i am in my cycle.
I know how frustration it can be, after 10 months i swear im going a little coo coo!!! :o

[BabyDreaming]

Well I got af today THANK GOD!!!

Atleast now I know where I am in my cycle...THE START :D

I started taking my maca root capsules again because they helped to shorten and sort of regulate my cycles last time I took them.

She's being a painful lil bugger too :mad: I hardly ever get bad af cramps, but when I do....boy do they hurt lol