I hate men

[Teley]

Frankly, I hate them because none of them want me. I mean, they want me, as a piece of meat. They want me as a f***bag, face in the pillow, to satisfy their own selfish disgusting needs.

They don't want me for who I am. Because frankly I'm not that pretty or go out that much. Because frankly I've had my trust broken so much that I don't believe a word that comes out of their filthy lying mouths. They don't want to get to know the real me. All they see is, young, single mother who had her child at 17 and is living in the department of housing. And then when I brush their disgusting advances off they act all pushy and tough because they get offended that I don't want to mix with low lives and sleazes like them. Because that's all they are! They don't see me as the smart, kind, happy-go-lucky woman I am, I am NOT a piece of meat.

And that is why I hate men:thumbsdown:.

Sorry for the vent.

[Benji]

:hugs: hun, I used to feel like that too. But recently I have [finally] met a nice man who doesn't see me as a piece of a**e at all.

They ARE out there. It's just hard being young because a lot of men do 'seem' to be interested in only one thing.

Keep trying. I promise you'll find a goodun. If someone treats you badly, tell them where to go asap.

More hugs are needed :hugs::hugs::hugs:

[Teley]

Thanks for the hugs Angike:hugs:.

I will come back to this thread when I feel a bit more calm:chillpill:.

[mybabyandew]

I dont trust men at all i always think they are lying (Most of the time are ) and are always up to no good.Having my first child at 16 and being pregnant again at now 17 almost 18 and single thats preety much all i get seen as is a peice of meat and someone that is easy, and that totally not true. Its hard to find someone there other just cheaters or just want one thing from you and thats to have you in bed.

[Teley]

I dont trust men at all i always think they are lying (Most of the time are ) and are always up to no good.Having my first child at 16 and being pregnant again at now 17 almost 18 and single thats preety much all i get seen as is a peice of meat and someone that is easy, and that totally not true. Its hard to find someone there other just cheaters or just want one thing from you and thats to have you in bed.


:hugs::hugs:I completely get where you are coming from! It's as if having kids makes us easy......wtf?!

I'm sorry if I'm coming across as rude of anything, I really need to take a :chillpill: pill today. Everything just basically got to me that I was buying DS a bike, and it came in a heavy box that I couldn't lift, and I just started bawling my eyes out in the middle of the shoppping centre, and the shop assistant was looking at me weird and trying not to laugh. Which made me feel even worse.

Okay I need to get off bubhub tonight before I make any more embarassing posts:(.

[Issey]

sorry you are feeling so down and angry.

i know it can be really hard trying to do things on your own when you don't have the strength to do it, like carrying a bike, and assembling it. I have been there in that exact scenario.

As for the men part....I am sorry that you have met men that haven't treated your right and made you feel that way.

There are some very nice genuine guys out there its just sifting through the others that is a problem. :hugs:

[sockstealingpoltergeist]

It is hard sometimes to have faith in people when you have been treated so poorly in the past.

If someone treats you with even the tiniest amount of disrespect put a stop to it straight away and end things.

You deserve to be happy, and being single is heaps of fun, just enjoy it.

Oh and any man who even gets to breath in your direction is a lucky man.

[Freya]

:hugs::hugs::hugs:

Don't hate all men, there are some amazing men out there. I know so many women with absolutely amazing, respectful partners.

Our time will come.:yes:

[aje001]

:-(

[bAaM]

Not PRETTY, I wish i could slap you for saying that:eek:

You a beautiful inside and out, your a wonderful mother and you have a great personality.

Any man that hasnt realised that yet is a w@nker and doesnt no what he is missing.

Freya is right there are some great guys out there (mine being one) took me along time to find mr right and went through ALOT of Mr wrongs but there are some great guys out there:hugs:

[Mum&bubs]

Umm yeah BaAm is right, NOT PRETTY?!?! Are you kidding me?!? You are so beautiful it's not funny! I am jealous! I always looked at your pics on facebook and thought you were so naturally pretty... and in real life you look even better :yes: (Oookay just made myself sound like some stalker :laughing:) But don't EVER say that again missy.

As for the men, yes there are some horrible men out there. But there are also some great men and I'm sure one day you will meet him and he will treat you and your boy the way you's deserve to be treated.

As for these scummy one's that just want to use you, get rid of them! They aren't worth your time honey :hugs:

[Teley]

I am currently in the process of dialling the police to notify that I have a stalker by the name of K.U.:eek:




















Jk:laughing:. Thank you guys for lifting my spirits:hugs:. As you can see, I'm so silly that I stressed myself out so much today that I'm still not asleep! God I'll pay for it tomorrow.....
But really, thank you for giving me some hope in MANkind.

You guys are awesome:yelclap:.

And Andrew....sorry for hurting your feelings! I didn't mean you! I meant sleazy horrible disrespectful men, I should have made myself more clear! (and I'm pretty sure you don't fit into those).

[aje001]

And Andrew....sorry for hurting your feelings! I didn't mean you! I meant sleazy horrible disrespectful men, I should have made myself more clear! (and I'm pretty sure you don't fit into those).
I'm by no means the perfect guy. I'd done loads of stupid things and heaps of hurtful things. Just ask my wife.

It just upsets me when people (guys or girls) get so upset about the opposite sex. It just sucks how it's always the people we love the most and are the closest too are the ones we hurt and who hurt us the most.

[naiwen]

:hugs::hugs: I too have had moments where I have hated men :hugs::hugs:.

It's lucky they are some good ones out there hey, :fingerscrossed: you find yours soon.

[SoloDad]

I'm by no means the perfect guy. I'd done loads of stupid things and heaps of hurtful things. Just ask my wife.

It just upsets me when people (guys or girls) get so upset about the opposite sex. It just sucks how it's always the people we love the most and are the closest too are the ones we hurt and who hurt us the most.

aje001 is right. We can all be jerks, and some more than others. And some more frequently than others.

But don't give up. That's too easy. There are a lot of nice guys out there. Try internet dating, quite a few ladies from Bubhub have had great success with it. But whatever you do, please don't tar us all with the same brush. Please.

I wish you health, happiness and success.

[Nowhere]

Frankly, I hate them because none of them want me. I mean, they want me, as a piece of meat. They want me as a f***bag, face in the pillow, to satisfy their own selfish disgusting needs.

They don't want me for who I am. Because frankly I'm not that pretty or go out that much. Because frankly I've had my trust broken so much that I don't believe a word that comes out of their filthy lying mouths. They don't want to get to know the real me. All they see is, young, single mother who had her child at 17 and is living in the department of housing. And then when I brush their disgusting advances off they act all pushy and tough because they get offended that I don't want to mix with low lives and sleazes like them. Because that's all they are! They don't see me as the smart, kind, happy-go-lucky woman I am, I am NOT a piece of meat.

And that is why I hate men:thumbsdown:.

Sorry for the vent.


firstly hugs :hugs::hugs:

and secondly :shame: Dont ever talk about your self that way saying you are not pretty, Im sure you are a very prety girl and I KNOW for a fact that you are a nice person, and good person and a good mum.

As for this
All they see is, young, single mother who had her child at 17 and is living in the department of housing.

Well if that is all they see then then clearly they are not good enough for you, simple as that, Yes you your bubs at 17, and you may live in houseing department but that doesnt mean sh#t. Look at is another way you are an exceptional women who had a baby at 17 but you chose to keep your baby and love your baby and raise your baby, and you have a wonderful HOME that for you and your child, It may be a dept or housing house but its your HOME you made it a home no one else


I was once told that in order for anyone to love you you have to love your self, and I dont see much loving for your self, Maybe work on that first.

You are a wonderful person a wonderful mum and a wonderful friend to many here on the hub and im sure many in real life, Once you see that in your self im sure others will too

Yes some men are not nice at all but im sure there wil be a Mr wonderful out there for you, and one day you wil find him, Once you start to see the Misses wonderful inside your self


:hugs: im sory for the telling off and i mean it all in the nicest possible way I just hate to see wonderful people put them selfs down :hugs:

[Teley]

firstly hugs :hugs::hugs:

and secondly Dont ever talk about your self that way saying you are not pretty, Im sure you are a very prety girl and I KNOW for a fact that you are a nice person, and good person and a good mum.

As for this
All they see is, young, single mother who had her child at 17 and is living in the department of housing.

Well if that is all they see then then clearly they are not good enough for you, simple as that, Yes you your bubs at 17, and you may live in houseing department but that doesnt mean sh#t. Look at is another way you are an exceptional women who had a baby at 17 but you chose to keep your baby and love your baby and raise your baby, and you have a wonderful HOME that for you and your child, It may be a dept or housing house but its your HOME you made it a home no one else


I was once told that in order for anyone to love you you have to love your self, and I dont see much loving for your self, Maybe work on that first.

You are a wonderful person a wonderful mum and a wonderful friend to many here on the hub and im sure many in real life, Once you see that in your self im sure others will too

Yes some men are not nice at all but im sure there wil be a Mr wonderful out there for you, and one day you wil find him, Once you start to see the Misses wonderful inside your self


im sory for the telling off and i mean it all in the nicest possible way I just hate to see wonderful people put them selfs down


:hugs::hugs::hugs:MM, omg, I'm sorry I honestly have just found your response. You said it in such nice words. Thank you. Almost brought tears to my eyes:o.

[Knocked_for_six]

Sorry I am not a young mum... but couldn't read you post and not comment!! Firstly a big :hugs::hugs: I wasn't a young mother, but after a long term relationship in my late teens/early 20's ended, I suddenly becomes a piece of meat, I had trust issue which may not have helped the situation. I know just how you feel, it was horrible, it made me feel :barf: I ended up withdrawing from people a lot, in particular from men, I preferred to spend my nights at home with a good book and would only ever go out with close friends and never to clubs or pubs. A part of me loathed men and what they saw of me… well ultimately after a few years of being alone, I went on a date (with a big push from my friends) and now that man is my husband of 7+ years- who always has respected me, loved and appreciated me for who I am on the inside.

Anyways I am babbling, sorry… I just wanted to let you know you are not alone, regrettably many men are nothing but low life pigs, but there are some out there that are old fashioned gentlemen, don’t lose hope, I really hope that one day when your are ready you prince charming will come- a man who will see the happy go lucky women you are, a man who would judge you by what age you had a child or where you live is not worth having in your life- you deserve better, don't let those such men get to you, be strong and proud of who you are and your perfect man will come- when you least expect it! :hugs:

[Nowhere]

:hugs::hugs::hugs:MM, omg, I'm sorry I honestly have just found your response. You said it in such nice words. Thank you. Almost brought tears to my eyes:o.


anytime, you just gota start beleiving it :hugs:

[c2p08]

:hugs::hugs:

i jsut wanted to give u a couple of hugs, i know how u feel, i had the same thing until i met my DP, i had my DD at 20, but i was still considered a younge mum by alot of ppl, and coz i am no longer with her father i was considered easy.

hang in there sweetie, alot of men are a**holes, i hope that until you find your prince charming you can find happiness in your child and being alone. Sometimes, time is the best thing for us.

Dont settle for anything less then what makes you happy and who treats you right.

good luck in the future.

[Teley]

You guys are awesome:hugs::hugs::hugs: with your support. Really, you are.

Somehow, one day, I might be able to break down the barrier of this hurt guilt and fear. Maybe:fingerscrossed:.