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KendraS03
20-04-2009, 10:21
Let me know if anyone ever had an issue like this and if they had how they got over it PLEASE!

So I'm 27 and have a 10 year old and a 6 year old. Was in a 8 year relationship that ended bad (cheating, custody, fighting over material things when we seperated, etc...)

I left 2 and a half years ago and started a new life with my boys.

I fell in love with my now fiancee a year ago. He is by far the best man I've ever met. No issues and treats me like a queen.

He wants and baby and so do I but for some reason as bad as I want one and want to give him what he wants too I'm so reluctant.

There is something holding me back from making the final decision to do it- I can't quite explain it.

Has someone else had and issue similar to this?

2made3
20-04-2009, 10:35
Sorry I haven't been in your shoes but maybe your subconscious is holding you back out of a little fear that perhaps - just maybe - one day you might end up going through everything you went through before, again with your new fiance?? Are you sure you have closure on everything that happened in the past?? Maybe then you can totally move on without hesitation??

Just a thought :p.

Good luck :babydust2: