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Hello there, I have been seeing a great guy for the last 1.5 months.He has known about my daughter from day one. We have been out on a few dates and all is giong well. He always asks about her ans does not hear me stop talking about her !!!!!!! I am wondering when is the right time for them to meet each other????? Should I let him let me know when he's ready or bring it up myself??????
ohh thats a hard one isnt it. It would have a different answer for differnt types of fellers.
If he is always asking about it i would think that sooner or later he would ask about when its possible to meet her. But then maybe he just enjoys having you, alone, away from being a mother, undevided attention.
For that last reason, it is why i had intro'd my son on the 2nd date. ( i was seeing a guy for 5 mths, i have now ended it)
I thought he may as well get used to the idea strait up that my son is more important and im at his beck and call so to speak, rather then the mans. I also beleive children are a great judge of character and will suss him out real fast lol. It will also bring something out in the new man, weather good or bad that wont appear untill he is faced with a child ever present!
Its a tricky one but i think only u can answer it correctly becoz u already have a fair idea on how this man works and what makes him tick, weather he is more inclined to ask or rather would he wait to be asked?
Trust your gut, and do what u feel is right. I personally would just ask him if u feel safe with him. Just keep the meet ups short n sweet tho so as not to allow any bonding to fast with your child and him.
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