Update

[Adah]

I posted alittle while about my questions about timing for having a baby and thought I'd update.

In the past few weeks I experienced a miscarriage or what the doctor called a "chemical pregnancy" (miscarriage less than 4 weeks). It turns out that after going off the pill I did get pregnant about 2 months later. The test didn't show up as although I knew I was pregnant I was only 1.5 weeks in.

After that experience I have realised what is most important to me. I want to have a baby. My fiance was affected by the miscarriage and had said that its made him realise how badly he wants a baby too.

Now its just a matter of waiting as it is important to us to wait until after we marry (at the end of this year).

I'm finding everywhere I look there are people having babies. I get so envious when see them with their precious gifts... when will this feeling go away?

[Myztiks#1Fan]

hi there, TBH i dont think the feeling ever goes away. i am a single mum and i crave for another child as my son is slowly growing up and getting older and if i do have another one, they wont be close in age which is what i wanted. but for me to have another child is definately not a good idea. i see pregnant women everywhere as well as new born babies and it upsets me i cant give my little one a play mate. every woman is different so everyones feelings would be different.

i never craved for a child before i fell pregnant nor have i had a miscarriage so i cant offer any advice on that but :hugs: for you.

i am sure there is a little gift waiting for the right time to be delivered to you...