Need advice!!!!

[princessbella]

hi i split with bella's dad about 2 and a half months ago and i went over to his brother/ best mates house (they aren't related but really close), anywho i went over for a couple of drinks and well one thing led to another and we slept together at the time thats all i wanted i didn't want a relationship or anything, anyway that was about 4 days ago and well i have stayed there almost everynight and i think i am developing feeling for him, he said he wants more but i dont know what to do i know what my head is saying... run for the hills dont look back just run, but my heart is saying he cares for me and bella more than her father ever did. he is so gentle and loving and.... well i dont know what to do what would any of you girls do in my situation, you probably wouldn't be in this situation because you have more brains than me but hypothetically what would you do? i really need help

[sandy cheeks]

:hugs:
Hi um u could b opening a real can of worms here as u said his ur ex's best mate/kinda brother so it's not moving on with some1 new ur ex will b hurt by both of u not just one of u IYKWIM and u have only been broken up for 2.5months so it's still fresh.
I wouldnt get involved i'd stay away my ex would make my life hell on earth if i hooked up with some1 he knew if it was his bf I wouldnt like to think of what he'd do.
U have to do what makes u happy but if it's not going to b a long term thing with u and him why bother cos ur ex will no doubt never let u forget what happened with him and u and ur ex have a dd so will b stuck together in someway or another but this could just b a fling and if so do u really want to live with it forever and give the ex ammo u no what men can b like.
Hope it all works out for u

[princessbella]

thanks for the advice it really helped i dont think i am going to go around there anymore, i really dont need to be cut off from him and all of his family, too much stress. thanks again

[Allanah]

Right now you are feeling love and attention that you probably havent gotten for a while and it does feel great...but going through with it THIS SOON, will end up in alot of hurt for everyone. All girls look for a prince in shining armour when they are hurting...

If this guy really does care for you he will understand when you say you need a few months to get your head clear.
You have only been broken up from her dad for 10weeks, that is no time at all. Have some me time for yourself and your little girl, concentrate on what makes the 2 of you happy, and if that guy is still around in a couple of months, take it slow with him...

my opinion only, but hope it helps :) goodluck x

[MummyDaddy]

Listen to your head.

Is this guy her fathers BROTHER?

I'm confused?

Eitherway don't listen to your feelings - they are only temporary and caused by most likely good sex.

The head is always right - it's unfortunate we don't listen to it more often.

[princessbella]

thanks yeah i think i am finally going to listen to my head if i had of listened to it more then i wouldn't be in this situation to start with. thanks girls for all of your advice i apreciate it