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icugal
04-06-2006, 16:36
Just a bit of a pop quiz here...

For those of you who have managed to get pregnant in the past, how many months had you been trying before getting your BFP?

poshBecks
04-06-2006, 16:39
#1 took 7 months, #2 took 4.

sugar n spice
04-06-2006, 16:42
#1 - 10mnths
#2 - 3mnths
#3 - wasnt expected or planned but 2 1/2 mnths after coming off the pill

nuddle
04-06-2006, 16:44
#1 3 months
#2 straight away...I was very fertile, had a few miscarriages, and fell pg straight away with all of them.

good luck

nemosmum
04-06-2006, 16:44
#1: Completely unplanned :eek: ( I had trouble with the pill and hadnt had a period in over 8mths when I got preggie)

#2: Hopefully the next one will be planned:D and easy to concieve like our first:fingerscrossed:

#3: There wont be a third:no:

misskittyfantastico
04-06-2006, 16:45
I concieved first try. Good luck TTC:fingerscrossed: I wish you all the best.

veve
04-06-2006, 16:48
you really want to know??

two weeks off the pill... two attempts ... and voila ... baby

scary ... my DH was disappointed - he wanted more 'practice' :rolleyes:

xx

Mamaduke
04-06-2006, 16:49
#1: 6 months (which we were told was pretty average).
#2: 1st try! (got the hang of it!)

nuddle
04-06-2006, 16:49
lol about hubby being dissapointed....

liah
04-06-2006, 16:51
#1 wasn't planned (my suprise baby :) )

#2 is still in the making (3 months so far)

~Danni~
04-06-2006, 16:57
#1 First month of trying
#2 First month of trying

We dont seem to have any probs or were extremly lucky (bit of both I suppose):D

Good luck with TTC:)

Jamily
04-06-2006, 17:21
#1 - a lovely surprise
#2 - about 2 months (still cooking, due in Jan)

jennababe
04-06-2006, 17:26
close to 2 years!.. had one miscarrage in that time.. and after that took another 8 months to get pregnant.. i was convinced i couldnt have babies:( and didnt get over my m/c until i fell pregnant again.. it can be sooo hard to get pregnant and playing the waiting game it feels like it takes over your life.. its so hard when you are a few days late and u think is this it.. and everytime u go to the toilet and dont see a period u get your hopes up.. and then it comes.. its so hard on a women i think.. try not to worry to much.. i think its all about the right timing.. and when its meant to be it will happen.. in the mean time its alot of fun trying! hehe.... goodluck!! ;) :hugs:

Seekrit
04-06-2006, 17:27
you really want to know??

two weeks off the pill... two attempts ... and voila ... baby

scary ... my DH was disappointed - he wanted more 'practice' :rolleyes:

xx
meanwhile mine was upset at the amount of practise. :rolleyes: apparently I made him BD too often and it stopped being something fun. (Welcome to my world, sweetheart)

But yeah, we became pregnant first month trying :)

PMS
04-06-2006, 17:27
#1 about 9 mths to conceive
#2 fell pregnant first attempt!

Best of luck ttc!

Cupcake
04-06-2006, 17:32
I was very lucky & got pregnant on our first try :thumbsup:
It was on our Honeymoon :kiss:

Good Luck :fingerscrossed:

bec79
04-06-2006, 17:36
1 year, but MC
6 months...success!!

Milis
04-06-2006, 17:40
5 months with DS.

We're in the 1st month of trying for #2 - hopefully this one won't take as long :D.

Good luck, I hope it happens for you soon.

icugal
04-06-2006, 18:50
Wow !! Thanks for all your replies. I'm amazed how many of you got your BFP within the first couple of months... you guys give me hope !!

:smiliedance:

kymmy
04-06-2006, 19:00
Married then 2 long months later pregnant with first child.
I was unwell for a while after she was born and was unable to hold a pregnancy.
After a thyroidectomy I fell preg with my 2nd straight away.
Soon after weaning my 2nd baby I was pregnant with my last baby.


Some ppl are very fertile, some ppl not.

Briannabear
04-06-2006, 19:27
We were very lucky. :yes:
Baby #1 took 4 months.
Baby #2 took 2 months!

LittleBoysRock
04-06-2006, 19:35
DS took us 3 months to conceive after coming off the pill. And I was told I would never have children.

Hopefully #2 doesnt take too long!! :)

ozzysmum
04-06-2006, 19:43
My boss and his wife spent 6 years TTC and he announced she was pregnant the same day I found out I was - I left it a few weeks until I told him I was and then did not tell him it only took 20 minutes for us :o just lucky I guess, I was told it would be difficult for me and it wasn't :D

good luck :fingerscrossed:

SilverStarfish
04-06-2006, 20:09
It took us nearly 2 years. It was a really hard time, even though I know that for some couples it's even harder. The next person who told me to "just relax" was going to get hit over the head with something heavy :banghead: I had the usual run of medical tests and all they came up with was "Idiopathic Infertility" - infertile but we don't know why.

Then someone told me about Jason Jackson (http://www.naturopathic.net.au/), a naturopath here in Brisbane, who specialises in fertility and women's health. We were with him for only 3 cycles when we conceived our little baby girl. It might have just been coincidence, but I honestly believe that she wouldn't be here were it not for Jason :thumbsup:

Good Luck to you! :fingerscrossed:

PhAnToM
04-06-2006, 20:46
Ditto about the disappointed hubby.
First one took about 3 weeks.
Second hit the target on first attempt!
DH very proud (they don't come much more competitive than him! :rolleyes: )

I think you can see why I choose abstanence as my choice of protection! :laughing:

cookie
04-06-2006, 21:58
6 whole years to get our precious little man due to endometriosis ......but proves practice makes perfect ;) he is one hell of a little beauty :D

Rockett
04-06-2006, 22:09
DD took 2 months to conceive after coming off the pill.

MrsMiggins
04-06-2006, 22:11
#1: 26 months :(

#2: hopefully A LOT less than that! Although so far since DD was born in October last year, we have not used any birth control at all & nothing yet. :( My periods returned in December.

MrsMiggins
04-06-2006, 22:15
It took us nearly 2 years. It was a really hard time, even though I know that for some couples it's even harder. The next person who told me to "just relax" was going to get hit over the head with something heavy :banghead: I had the usual run of medical tests and all they came up with was "Idiopathic Infertility" - infertile but we don't know why.

LOL :laughing: I also felt like doing serious bodily harm to the "just relax" people!!

We were also diagnosed with "Unexplained Infertility" (although how that can be a diagnosis, I don't know!! It's more like the Dr's all just gave up!)

ETsMum
04-06-2006, 22:16
#1 = 6 months

#2 tba.... (this is our second month of TTC :fingerscrossed: )

FourAngelKisses
04-06-2006, 22:22
10mths with Jacob.
I'd been off the pill for one month with Brooke.
I was on the pill with Matthew.

Starlet
04-06-2006, 22:31
Baby #1: 4 months
Baby #2: 4 months
Baby #3: We're in the third month of trying, but it looks like this isn't going to be our month!

MumsieMel
05-06-2006, 13:51
No 1
1st month of trying

No 2
2nd month

N3
2nd month

2girls&1boy
05-06-2006, 14:02
#1 - We weren't trying but I had been off the pill for 4mths when we fell with our georgous Grace.

#2 - 3mths to make our beautiful Hannah (she is now 5 weeks old!!!).

Jacki
05-06-2006, 15:33
It took us 15 months! We conceived the month after I had a laparoscopy to investigate infertility!

H&B'sMum
05-06-2006, 16:45
DS - 12 months.
TTC #2 - coming up to 12 months (unsuccessful as of yet :thumbsdown:)

3 bambinos
05-06-2006, 21:47
DS - 1 month

#2 - TTC for 1 mth so far :fingerscrossed:

bubbles28
05-06-2006, 22:14
honeymoon baby!

borntobemummy
05-06-2006, 23:47
# 1 -- 11 months ( I had PCOS and went on Clomid for 3 cycles, then got pregnant the month after we stopped Clomid!!)

#2 -- still waiting for my cycles to come back :banghead:

diamonds22
06-06-2006, 07:15
I'm 22 and it actually took almost a year, I was very surprised by this as I automatically presumed that as soon as we stopped using contraception I would fall preggy (this seems to be a misconception that I have found a lot of my friends have too, perhaps due to sex education scaring us into believing that the instant we didn't use a condom we would be pregnant:p )

Bolli
06-06-2006, 11:23
Still trying for #1, been off pill for 5 months, this is our 3 month trying.

Long cycles so it may take a while:)

little_fish
06-06-2006, 11:28
Almost the same here, been off the pill for 4 cycles now, this is the 5th TTC#1. Luckily my cycles are only 30-35 days...

It's amazing (and somewhat depressing from where I'm standing ;)) how many of you concieved in the first month. I was hoping you'd all say it took 5 months, and then I'd feel very hopeful about this month :p

QTB
06-06-2006, 11:44
#1 took 18months

#2 has taken 5 months so far hopfully not many more :fingerscrossed:

Hokey Pokey
06-06-2006, 12:20
# 1 was unplanned
# 2 about 2 months (M/C)
# 3 about 3 months

justrace
06-06-2006, 18:02
24 months trying naturally, 5 months on IVF - third attempt. Worth every day of the wait.

Hang in there. LOL I definatly know what you mean with the JUST RELAX, couldn't you throw something at them.

Good luck TTC

HugsAndKisses
06-06-2006, 18:09
my DP am i had unprotected *cough* for about a year on and off and didn't fall preg in that time and then one time we did after i just finnished a period and :yes: welcome to the world justin:smiliedance:
good luck with it :hugs:

Pices_79
06-06-2006, 18:20
Got pregnant first cycle off the pill

:fingerscrossed: :fingerscrossed: you get a BFP soon!!!!

aggero
06-06-2006, 18:20
Conceived in our 6th month of trying :smiliedance: At the time it felt like ages but considering what some go through we are lucky :D

vanillabean
06-06-2006, 23:15
#1 - 5 months
#2 - 5 weeks after I came off the pill

SilverStarfish
06-06-2006, 23:26
perhaps due to sex education scaring us into believing that the instant we didn't use a condom we would be pregnant:p ) [/COLOR]


Tell me about it!! By the time the second year started I was feeling like I was playing a game and that someone had moved the goal posts and not told me.

As a teenager it's hammered into you: Always use contraception, there is no 'safe' time....blah blah blah. You spend so much energy NOT getting pregnant, that when you finally make the huge decision to have a baby....

All of a sudden it turns out that, oh sorry! The rules have changed. It's actually hard to get pregnant. There's like only 2 or 3 days a month that you are fertile.

Add to that all the "helpful" advice and the good old "oh you just need to relax. Stop thinking about it"... it sent me right round the bend a few times.

wa mum of 4
06-06-2006, 23:49
First I would like to apologize to everyone who is having problems conceiving.
I think about falling pregnant and pop.
DS 1 one month.
DS 2 one month
DS 3 SURPRISE
DD 1 two months.

I think DD took longer as I came off the pill the DS's I wasn't using any contraceptives, purely relying on condoms.
Sarah

♥Heaven Sent♥
07-06-2006, 01:06
I was on the pill for 3 yrs and then started ttc #1
#1 took 8 months my cycles were 35-40 days long
#2 took 2 months my cycles were 34 days

sshellzp
07-06-2006, 01:16
I got pregnant first month trying after having Implanon for 2 years.

moggs
07-06-2006, 07:15
Hi,

With first daughter, I fell pregnant first time.

This time it took two months, i think it would of taken alot longer if I weren't aware of my ovulation cycle. That really works!!

Moggs xx

Desertress
07-06-2006, 07:58
#1- Not sure as we werent actually trying for a bubba... but a welcome surprise all the same
#2 - 2 months.... would have been less but i was really ill for the first month we were trying.

MyGuys
07-06-2006, 09:26
with DS it was within the first month coming off the pill. This time have been off the pill since September and still nothing. Hopefully soon!!!

BlessedWithBlue
07-06-2006, 13:13
with #1 we got preg 2 in the second month and with #2 we got preg in the third month. Well we're onto our fourth month ttc#3 and no bfp yet lol

icugal
07-06-2006, 18:58
Well, it's a bit strange to answer my own thread... but I can now say that I've got a BFP on my first go... :smiliedance:

I'm in shock.

Seekrit
07-06-2006, 19:02
:smiliedance: Congratulations!!! :D

FourAngelKisses
07-06-2006, 19:03
Woohoo!!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!!! :yes: :smiliedance: :smiliedance: :smiliedance:

PhAnToM
07-06-2006, 21:24
Well, it's a bit strange to answer my own thread... but I can now say that I've got a BFP on my first go... :smiliedance:

I'm in shock.

Congratulations!!! :yelclap:
:hugs:

3 bambinos
07-06-2006, 22:57
:smiliedance: Congratulations!!!! :smiliedance:

CJandMum
08-06-2006, 08:10
I got my BFP this morning after 2 months of trying post implanon!!

FourAngelKisses
08-06-2006, 08:45
Congratulations!!!

Livy
08-06-2006, 09:56
Congrats Tara - that is awesome news :smiliedance:

Livy
08-06-2006, 10:02
Well, it's a bit strange to answer my own thread... but I can now say that I've got a BFP on my first go... :smiliedance:

I'm in shock.

That's fantastic news congratulations! :smiliedance: Looks like this is a great month for those BFP'S :fingerscrossed:

whitsundaysmumma
08-06-2006, 10:50
Tara21 Congratulations On Your Bfp, So Much For Your Honeymoon Baby!!

Ttc For Us Took:

1# 14months
2# 1 Month
3# 13 Months
4# Currently Sitting On 5th Months Of Trying

CJandMum
08-06-2006, 22:43
[QUOTE=lissylou]Tara21 Congratulations On Your Bfp, So Much For Your Honeymoon Baby!! [QUOTE]

Thanks! We had a change of heart with the wedding, we didn't want to plan our ttc around one day so we changed it! Oh well! I am so excited right now.. thanks everyone! I guess the relaxed approach to ttc worked for me:D