BFP and a bit scared

[kaiad]

Well my AF was due 2 days ago so I decided to test and got a BFP. I am thrilled but I also am a bit scared. I have been pregnant 3 times before and although I have gone on to have 2 healthy pregnancies I have M/C once. The main indication for me that I was pregnant was the sore boobs very early on and for the one where I M/C I did not get the sore boob sympton (sorry if this is TMI). Anyway for this pregnancy I have not had the sore boobs and I am really scared that this will turn into a M/C also. I have just stopped feeding my 8 month old so this may have something to do with it (any advice there?). I am too scared to tell my DH as I don't want him to get all excited and risk him getting dissapointed if I do M/C. What should I do? Should I tell my DH or wait for a while? Sorry for rambling on and I am not even sure if this is the right message board to put this on. Hope this makes sense and thanks for listening. Please no PM's, thanks.

Very confused.

[Mummy2my5]

Hi there,:wave: congrats on your bfp. It is understandable to be scared after having a m/c but i would definately tell your dh cause then he would be able to be there for you if you do m/c. I never had sore boobs with any of my 4 pregnancies till towards the end so it is not necessarily an indication of a m/c. Good luck to you sending lots of sticky baby dust to you.

[bronny-jane]

this is my 5th pg, i had 2 mc before dd 1 so i know what you mean about feeling worried:hugs:

i havent had sore boobs with this pg either, its been really different to the others:)

i think you should tell your dh, im sure it will be easier for you to have his support and someone to talk to about your concerns;)

best of luck with this pg:yelclap:

[nuddle]

first of all, congratulations, second of all, big Hug, I had 4 miscarriages between my two kids, and let me tell you, that you dont stop worrying, I was worried throughout my entire pg with my son. Deep down, I always knew with the m/c's that they werent going to maker it.
I hope you are going to be fine, if you are really worried, why not ask your dr for a blood test, that should show how strong the pg hormones are, especially if they do a repeat one a week later...

good luck, and I think you should tell dh either way, you are in this together.