Need some advice please - freaking out here!

[JulzisImpatient]

I’m really confused…..:confused:
AF was due 3 days ago and is always on time practically to the hour but I’m still getting :bfn: using first response!
I had mild AF like cramping two days before AF was due but she hasn’t arrived.

Today I’m 13DPO.

I’m starting to get worried why AF hasn’t shown up if I’m not UTD.

Does anyone have any ideas?
Should I go see my GP or do you think I should just keep on waiting and see what happens?

[RoarsomeMum]

:hugs::hugs: Don't freak out toooo much yet.. How long have you been TTC? I found the first few months of serious trying sent my Cycle haywire (stress and worry I think)

Testing may be a bit early, even thou AF is late.. They have ovulation down to a pretty accurate science, but implantation is way more varied.. You may have fertilised an egg that has been slow to implant.. Id wait till 15 DPO to test again..

If you *feel* it's just not right.. Def see your Dr.. You know your body better than anyone.

GOOD LUCK chasing your BFP:goodvibes:

[MamaKoala]

If you're still getting BFN then a Dr will probably get the same result. I'd wait a few more days and then retest. If it's still BFN then go to your Dr to try and figure out why you're late.
If you're TTC it may be that you're a little more anxious than normal and that could be making you late. :fingerscrossed: that you're UTD (if that's what you want)
The waiting sucks but you'll have your answer soon enough. Just a few more days.

[JulzisImpatient]

Thanks girls.

This is our second month TTC but the first month I totally misjudged my O date so this is the first real attempt.

You're probably right and it's just the stress of not knowing.... although I wasn't stressed until AF didn't arrive!

TMI alert!! ..... I just went to the loo and was quite constipated... I don't know if this is a sign or anything but it's unusual for me.

I'll wait until monday for AF to arrive and test again or see a GP.

[princessmummy]

ive just been through the same thing hopefully its just a little early to test

[BabyDreaming]

I'm not sure if this helps, but a few cycles ago (when we weren't fully ttc), I was 19 days late for AF. I really thought this was it, but kept getting bfn's and even a negative blood test. I got AF 2 days after the blood test :rolleyes:

Turns out I was late because I was sick with the flu about 2 weeks before hand, which made my cycles go crazy.

Have you been sick lately, or even in the past few weeks?

[JulzisImpatient]

No I haven't been sick at all.

I didn't even feel anxious in the TWW because I've had no preg symptoms except for creamy CM (from O day and still have it) so I didn't think there was much chance this month.

I was just sooo sure that AF was coming as per usual when I had the mild cramping. I even went out and bought somemore preseed in preparation for next month!

[JulzisImpatient]

Hi Girls :wave:,

:bfn: this morning again and still no AF. I’m now 14DPO.

Just a quick question….. what is your cervix suppose to feel like before AF is due?
I checked it the two days before AF was due and it was low and firm but checked it the past two days and it’s been high and soft.

I wish AF would just hurry up and come so I can get on with TTC next month!