he wont stop texting me and i think hes just doing to turn up to my house

[mybabyandew]

He texted me last night saying *im a b**ch,and i checked my phone today and i had a message saying im coming over to see andrew today so you better be there.I was at andrews kindy all day doing part of my 80 hours and he was at kindy today to,He didnt come over becuase my mum was home what if he just comes over and sees andrew hes going to be home all week and i wont be at home all day this week and its not like my mums going to stop him or say anything to him.

[MummyDaddy]

He's a pig.

I've said it once and i'll say it again.

Change your mobile number.

Then he can't do this to you.

It's such a simple thing to do!

You just go into the shop and say you lost your phone and need a new phone and while you're at it you'll have a new number too.

Simple.

Then he can't send you abusive text messages.

[faroutbrusselsprout]

He's a pig.

I've said it once and i'll say it again.

Change your mobile number.

Then he can't do this to you.

It's such a simple thing to do!

You just go into the shop and say you lost your phone and need a new phone and while you're at it you'll have a new number too.

Simple.

Then he can't send you abusive text messages.

:iagree:

I really feel for you being in such a awful situation. He sounds horrible.
You have received some great advice over the last few months about how to deal with him.
I really urge you to be proactive and take steps to avoid this continuing.

[lovingmotheract]

yes very true girls i would call the police as it's harassment. if you don't he is going to keep doing this as he knows you will not do anything.

[treasurehim]

If you say that you have lost your sim card, then they will just give you a new sim card and program your old details onto it.

No point lieing, just tell them you are getting unwelcome/threatening calls and messages and they will happily change your number for you!

[Benji]

yes very true girls i would call the police as it's harassment. if you don't he is going to keep doing this as he knows you will not do anything.


I tend to agree with this. He's not allowed to just show up to your house, whether your/his son is there or not. That IS harassment, especially the "b*tch" part.

If he wants to see Andrew, he has to organise times with you, well in advance. Not threaten you that he will just show up. The family court won't take too kindly to him doing that.

[MommaBear]

by the sound sof it he is harrassing and intimidating you.
Do you have any court orders for your son stating her can see him? if not DO NOT let him near your son if hes in the least bit likely to take off with him.

Go to the police and tell them what hes doing and that you want it to stop- they will most likely suggest an AVO- do it-dont let him rule your life with his sh!t.

Can you speak to your mum and tell her that he is NOT to see your son while your not present? Stress it to her that she isnt to let him insid etc.. if he turns up.

ALso keep ajournal of all his messages- what they say, time, date, your reply if any etc..... do NOT delete them and just get a new phone/number as PP have said.