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PreggySiren
03-04-2009, 13:47
Big :hugs: babydreaming! I really sucks that your man won't DTD when you're O spotting... jump in the shower & who knows the difference?? My DH would rather have spotting sex than no sex at all :laughing: But I must admit I usually steer clear of it for (dis)comfort factor. I thought I heard somewhere that spotting around O was a sign of good fertility (?)

Hopefully you time BDing really well M25 and hubby's drinking won't matter at all :fingerscrossed:

bgbgbb
03-04-2009, 13:56
Babydreaming, my advice re your husband, LIE! Dont tell him about the bleeding and he wont be put off. I'd definitely get another opinion if you dont feel confident in your dr.

I've just had some soup and bought up half the chemist. Throat is now sore but that is good because it give me answers - I have the flu! Explains the fainting and general discomfort.

M25, so happy my lot are in creche today. Everyone else can clean up their poohey bums!

BabyDreaming
03-04-2009, 13:58
It's more then just spotting though preggy. It's like a full on af bleed.

We tried dtd in the shower, but it just wasn't happening. Our shower is wayyyy too small, and the water doesn't help.
He said we could try in the bath when we got home, but I had started bleeding by then and dp said NOWAY!

We dtd once when af was almost over (back when he lived at home), and the mess! Oh the mess! DP put his foot down on bd'ing when there is ANY blood lol.

I actually had a dream about it last night :confused: I dreamt that I lied and said there was no blood, but then *you know* and there was definately blood there and dp got mad at me.

mumtofive
03-04-2009, 14:10
well i suppose hun, u just gotta put it to him, it is o spotting if we r going to concieve, we gotta put up with a little mess!!
some men and women are grosssed out by it, i dont do it when its my af, cause thats just way to much and there is no need, but if its o bleed, it mean the egg has left the buliding and u need to catch it before she gets in a taxi to visit af.

BabyDreaming
03-04-2009, 14:26
LOL

I thought O bleeding was just a bit of spotting though? This is like a full on af where I need to wear a pad and you can feel it coming out (TMI) And it lasts for abotu 4-5 days like a normal af too.

If it was just spotting then I would def lie, but there is no hiding the amount of blood that comes out.

mumtofive
03-04-2009, 14:31
Hmmm, that is weird then , cause that means u are having 12-14 day cycles, ish.
I would speak to another dr and tell them and see if u get another opinion.
oh hugs hunni, it must be so confusing and frustrating for you.:hugs::hugs::hugs:

PreggySiren
03-04-2009, 14:49
I agree with M25, go and see another doctor for a fresh opinion. I really feel for you - that would be doing my head in :no: :hugs:

PreggySiren
03-04-2009, 14:54
I've just had some soup and bought up half the chemist. Throat is now sore but that is good because it give me answers - I have the flu! Explains the fainting and general discomfort.

Yuck! Poor you! Lots of garlic & pineapple juice to boost that immune system ;)

1983Bella
03-04-2009, 15:12
LOL

I thought O bleeding was just a bit of spotting though? This is like a full on af where I need to wear a pad and you can feel it coming out (TMI) And it lasts for abotu 4-5 days like a normal af too.

If it was just spotting then I would def lie, but there is no hiding the amount of blood that comes out.

What is happening to you happened to me last cycle. I went and had a heap of blood tests etc. I also went and saw a FS. He said sometimes the body does things that cannot be explained. My bleeding lasted for 8 days then went away then I got a normal AF not long after. FS said that next cycle should be normal and he was right. He mentioned that sometimes AF doesn't shed the lining like it is suppose to and that is why you have bleeding in between. Don't stress about it too much. Your body will be back to normal in no time!!!!!!!!!

Have a look at my TTC diary, i wrote in there all about it.

sparkle5301
03-04-2009, 16:13
:hugs: babydreaming. You must be so frustrated and upset. I really hope that Bella is right, and that your next cycle is back to normal.

Electric Boogaloo
03-04-2009, 18:54
Hiya :)

Man this thread moves fast!!

preggysiren - good luck with your testing in a couple of days.... if you can hold off that long...

BGBG - sorry to hear you are sick, hope you feel better soon

m2five - I'm totally pulling for you this month. Catch that egg girl!!

babydreaming - that sounds totally confusing, hope get some answers soon...

AFM I am halfway through my tww. Hubby asked me this morning if I feel pregnant and I just don't know. I think if we weren't ttc, I wouldn't even notice all these minor symptoms that I'm having, but because we are ttc, I'm paying attention to EVERYTHING iykwim *sigh* more waiting i guess.....:rolleyes:

BabyDreaming
03-04-2009, 19:17
Thanks ladies :hugs:

This is the second month of it happening though Bella. I'm worried it will be a regular occurance :(

**Goes off to have a sticky beak at your diary**

mumtofive
03-04-2009, 20:04
evening ladies, well i have news......
as u all know i dont temp or use opk, but seeing as though i was feeling like o was near, and had this spotting, i bought my very first opk test kit.
hubby was hesitant but gave in, it cost $20.85 for 7 forelife anyway, i came straight home and poas and IT WAS A POSITIVE OPK!!!
The test line came up straight away even before the dye had moved accross and the, control line took forever to show up, and the test line got darker!!!!!!!!!!!!
So i am asuming that i am oing today, cause i dont have a test from yesterday to compare too, but i will test again tomorrow, it says to test at the same time, so 4.55pm i have a date with the loo and a stick, yipeee.

Electric Boogaloo
03-04-2009, 20:24
woohoo mum2 five!! :smiliedance: catch that egg!!!!!

shaz77
03-04-2009, 21:03
Hi Ladies,

I have been reading your thread since Feb, but haven't had the guts to add myself as that would be admitting that I'm TTC. DH isn't sure that he's ready for no. 3 but he's not turning down the BD either IYKWIM!! Anyway, good luck everyone. By the way, when is the best time to test? Day AF is due? before or a few days after?

mumtofive
03-04-2009, 21:21
Ok so the petition thus far.....
No af for Apr,........ Bring on the BFP!
mumtofive............ puppiesmum, Bfp Jan
AliMac............... Mads Mum, Bfp Feb
maybe1more......... Mylie, Bfp Feb
sparkle5301.......... MagicGirl79, Bfp Feb
jussi.................... hopefulgirl, Bfp Feb
Loutopia............... Mrsfingerscrossed, Bfp Feb
niki558................. cosimum, Bfp Feb
kat76................... tamarasmum, Bfp Feb
babyhopeful.......... cantwait1, Bfp Feb
Greenapple............manditherese Bfp Mar
Louisa79............... laurita Bfp Mar
Bexsi................... mumof2TTC :bfp: mar
1983Bella............. domsgirl :bfp: Mar
kbelly.................. Catlin'sMumma :bfp: mar
mrswhynot............elbie :bfp: Mar
PreggySiren...........bbluedust :bfp: Apr
LadyLou
Jezabel
boygirlboygirl
Thumbelina
greenpygmy
tamzmaree
Rydens Mummy
jellyd
BabyDreaming
nic255
shaz77

Hey shaz77, welcome to this thread, i hope, if its what u want that u get that egg!
The best day to start testing is the day after af is due imo, but i nver listen to myself, lol.
the grls here are really lovely and a great bunch of chatterboxs, we will try and help out as much as we can, and if not we are always a ear to listen or a shoulder to cry on, and we love a vent!!

Goood luck hun.

sparkle5301
03-04-2009, 21:41
mumtofive - I hope your DH obliges this month and you catch that eggy!

OK - this is the first month since TTC that I am really really hoping it's the month. I've been on the verge of tears all day - and i NEVER cry. Why, I am wondering - since it would be way too early to feel anything since i am only 3DPO. It's gonna be a long wait this month :(

bjk2924
03-04-2009, 21:42
hey all, So af is not due until sunday/monday and now have a couple more unusual symptoms that I can't explain.
The cramping is still hanging around and it is just below my rib cage on the left hand side, what this is from I have no idea as I have had lower abdomen cramping since around the time I o'd. And now to top it off I have realy bad indigestion and I never get indigestion so if anyone can also answer that I would be greatful. Still have bloating and gas and tired and always want to eat(not tat I am hungry just feel the need to eat, maybe that explains the bloating!!!).
Anyway I think I may be grasping at straws but hey.
Hope you are all having a wonderful evening, and thanks for reading and letting me join this wonderful thread.

Electric Boogaloo
03-04-2009, 21:45
hi bjk
your symptoms sound promising... :fingerscrossed:
i just noticed that you have three sons, are you hoping for a girl this time...? :bee:

bjk2924
03-04-2009, 21:58
Hey BB000, a girl would be nice but I don't think after having 3 boys I would know what to do they are so different even wiping it's bum I think I would have to buy an instruction manual!!!

Electric Boogaloo
03-04-2009, 22:00
Hey BB000, a girl would be nice but I don't think after having 3 boys I would know what to do they are so different even wiping it's bum I think I would have to buy an instruction manual!!!

:laughing: "hmmm, this one didn't come with all the parts attached...":laughing:

Jezabel
03-04-2009, 23:30
Bbluedust CONGRATULATIONS!!!:hugs: You so deserve this happiness!

Maybe you've set the trend for us all this month. I have very good feelings about this month for a lot of us.

Jezabel, I'm currently nursing AF pains too, on CD2. When do you expect to ovulate? We can be testing buddies now that Bbluedust has abandoned me (for the greater good).

Babydreaming, what on earth is Douglas doing in your pouch? Get him out of there!

I pretty much started fainting yesterday so I think its a quiet weekend for me. Obviously rather run down.

Oh i hope ur right and April is a good month for us all :)

im testing 30th april what about u?? we can def be testing buddies :)
GOODLUCK sending LOTS of :wizard: ur way
and hope u feel better soon

congrats to all the:bfp:!

bgbgbb
04-04-2009, 08:06
im testing 30th april what about u?? we can def be testing buddies :)
GOODLUCK sending LOTS of :wizard: ur way
and hope u feel better soon

congrats to all the:bfp:!

30th April is perfect for me too.

Feeling a fair bit better although it's definitely the flu. DH has the diarrhoea but giving him no sympathy as he's given me so very little the past few days. Men!

PreggySiren
04-04-2009, 09:26
:laughing: "hmmm, this one didn't come with all the parts attached...":laughing:

:laughing: Had a good laugh at that one!!

Soooo, girls... I was expecting at least a bit of spotting last night & nothing has happened yet. I'm kind of crampy, but I actually think it's wind... clearly I have no idea about my own body! I didn't take my temp this morning either :doh: I was supposed to work today, but it was canned, so here I am! Hubby is going to take me to Woolies some time this morning to grab some FR HPTs. But he's still sleeping and I'm getting impatient :rolleyes: :D

mumtofive
04-04-2009, 10:24
Morning my lovelies, well i got some last night, yes what a way to start my post, lol, but im a bit disapointed, i must have had stage fright or something as i couldn't for the second time in a row now reach the big 0, and i heard you need it to help the swimmers in, but we did go doggy caue i heard that has a greater chance of getting to the cervix. lol

So will do another opk tonight, but i believe i am 1 dpo today!!!!!!

Well my mum is comming to take 3 kids for the night, so i can go Easter bunny egg shopping today, so i will catch up on my crazy ladies later.

and before i go, good luck preggy siren, i hope to come home to a bfp!!

bgbgbb
04-04-2009, 12:01
M25, well if you must know my dear, with 2 of mine I (yes, it happens, FAKED it), so the big O is not required at all. In fact, I was reading somewhere that having an O had a greater chance of resulting in one sex, whilst if you didn't you had a greater chance of resulting in the other. So stop fretting Hon.

Preggy Siren - WAKE HIM UP!!!!!

My DH is not the bets (like most men) for remembering to do all the little chores we ask them, so we bought a whiteboard for me to put them all up. I have written on it : Things DH to do: He has responded: Have lots of sex!

So this month could be quite hopeful!:)

Bexsi
04-04-2009, 13:26
Preggy Siren - HAVE YOU TESTED YET????

Hi girls im back to the good part of TWW so will join you for another week or two of obsessing.

Mumto5 - If you got a pos OPK yesterday then you may have just Od today unless you would have got a pos day before yesterday as well. Its usally about 24 - 36 hours after your first pos opk so try and get some bdg in again tnt and you will cover all bases :). I rarely Orgasm when we are doing TTC bd. I dont know why cause I do other times so I hope it doesnt affect chances no wonder its taken a year now !!!

Now Preggysiren Test Test Test

BD - Sorry to hear you are having so many problems I would see another DR and make sure you tell them about the dark blood from last month to.

Sparkel - HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!!!!!

AFM - 6dpo so just waiting.

Preggy Siren - have you tested yet

Rydens Mummy
04-04-2009, 14:22
Well still no sign of Af and she is due today. Not game enought to test, as i got a BFN yesterday morning. So might wait until monday if she hasnt arrived.

Stacey

mumtofive
04-04-2009, 16:02
Mumto5 - If you got a pos OPK yesterday then you may have just Od today unless you would have got a pos day before yesterday as well. Its usally about 24 - 36 hours after your first pos opk so try and get some bdg in again tnt and you will cover all bases :). I rarely Orgasm when we are doing TTC bd. I dont know why cause I do other times so I hope it doesnt affect chances no wonder its taken a year now !!!


Sparkel - HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!!!!!




HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO HUN, gee how did i miss that is was ur birthday!!!!!!

Ok, as it was my first opk and had to line the test line looking better than the control line, im assuming it was positive, but i though i was oing or starting to o on thursady cd12, o not sure, but am oing and today is cd 14, so hope fully od by at least tomorrow, but when i opk tonight ill get a good indicater of what is going on, cause the line should be darker or ighter, if any of that made sence. :laughing:

Moorish
04-04-2009, 16:14
Hi girls!

New thread over here (http://www.bubhub.com.au/community/forums/showthread.php?p=3621201#post3621201) for you all!