musicalmummy
17-02-2009, 12:26
It was our anniversary last night and a very very kind childless friend of mine offered to sit at our house when we put the kids to bed so we could go out for dinner :yelclap:
So I thought it was a great time to ask him. It took so so much guts and my heart was racing but blurt ...out it came...i asked him if he would consider another.he first said oh, no not really. then i talked more about it how we've never discussed our kids they just happened so we never got to share the joy and how for a last one i'd really love that. i had the bedroom situation planned so that his other 2 kids wouldn't feel put out in any way. so he said to giv him a week to think it over. i'm so excited but so so so nervous he'll say no then that's it forever.:fingerscrossed::fingerscrossed:
So I thought it was a great time to ask him. It took so so much guts and my heart was racing but blurt ...out it came...i asked him if he would consider another.he first said oh, no not really. then i talked more about it how we've never discussed our kids they just happened so we never got to share the joy and how for a last one i'd really love that. i had the bedroom situation planned so that his other 2 kids wouldn't feel put out in any way. so he said to giv him a week to think it over. i'm so excited but so so so nervous he'll say no then that's it forever.:fingerscrossed::fingerscrossed: