Lallas' Mum
01-06-2006, 17:16
I have posted elsewhere, had a few viewers, but for once no one seems like giving me any advice. I am getting very stressed about what to do here so I am posting here to try and get some one's attention.
My 2 1/2 year DS today hit me with such a curve ball that I don't know what to do. He is experimenting with jocks instead of nappiesand today took his nappy off and put a pair of jocks on. Great I thought. He is really starting to get the hang of toilet training.
Then he hit me with it. He hitched his shirt up under his chin, pulled the fornt of his jocks down to expose himslef, squatted and proceeded to hump his toy car's wheel!!!You could have knocked me down with a feather. I actually had to sit down. I asked him what he was trying to do and he replied with "sexercises". I thought surely he meant exercises. So I asked him if that was what he meant and he was adament he meant sexercises.
I kept asking questions as to who showed him that. I eventually came up with the info that his 5 year female cousin had showed him. Now she is a pretty well brought up kid that goes to a good school and has never showed any signs of even knowing what sex is.
I spoke to my DH on the phone as he is at work and told him what had happened. The only senario that we can come up with is that the cousin walked in on her parents (DH's brother and SIL) while in the act and they explained themselves as doing sexercises. The do tell her some pretty silly things sometimes.
My dilema is what to do now. Dh and I have agreed we should tell his brother & SIL, but how on earth do you word that one?? I have told my DS that his behaviour is not acceptable and his is not to do it again. So far, so good. But what do i say if the behaviour starts to repeat itself. My DS2 who is one was already repeated the thrusting movements!!!
SO please HELP, HELP, HELP!!!!:gloomy:
My 2 1/2 year DS today hit me with such a curve ball that I don't know what to do. He is experimenting with jocks instead of nappiesand today took his nappy off and put a pair of jocks on. Great I thought. He is really starting to get the hang of toilet training.
Then he hit me with it. He hitched his shirt up under his chin, pulled the fornt of his jocks down to expose himslef, squatted and proceeded to hump his toy car's wheel!!!You could have knocked me down with a feather. I actually had to sit down. I asked him what he was trying to do and he replied with "sexercises". I thought surely he meant exercises. So I asked him if that was what he meant and he was adament he meant sexercises.
I kept asking questions as to who showed him that. I eventually came up with the info that his 5 year female cousin had showed him. Now she is a pretty well brought up kid that goes to a good school and has never showed any signs of even knowing what sex is.
I spoke to my DH on the phone as he is at work and told him what had happened. The only senario that we can come up with is that the cousin walked in on her parents (DH's brother and SIL) while in the act and they explained themselves as doing sexercises. The do tell her some pretty silly things sometimes.
My dilema is what to do now. Dh and I have agreed we should tell his brother & SIL, but how on earth do you word that one?? I have told my DS that his behaviour is not acceptable and his is not to do it again. So far, so good. But what do i say if the behaviour starts to repeat itself. My DS2 who is one was already repeated the thrusting movements!!!
SO please HELP, HELP, HELP!!!!:gloomy: