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TripleTime
03-02-2009, 15:20
So my issue is incorperating my Kids, they will only around 12 months old & i would really like them in the wedding party. Though i can just see them sanding there kicking up a fuss cos they dont want to walk.

Question is, am i thinking to far ahead or what? Seeing as im only 13 weeks preggers. I like to be super organised & not being able to plan thing compleatly is driving me nuts! :(

flick82
03-02-2009, 17:29
Congrats on the wedding and the babies. I dont think your thinking to far ahead, its good to be organised, espically with a wedding. What im planning to do is we have 6 in the bridal party (3 bridesmaids & 3 groomsmen)and 3 kids, so each couple will walk down with a child. The 2 eldest will walk and the younger one will be carried. My situation is a little different and everyone wants to hold our youngest.

Chunkydunks
03-02-2009, 17:40
We only had one and he was 18 months so having him as page boy was obvious but we also had my nephew to do the "official" page boy stuff lol. In the end Dad carried DS down the aisle with us because he refused to walk lol.

At 12 months there is no guarantee that the triplets will be walking. I think flick82's way of incorporating the kids is great. I've also know people to have littlies pulled by bigger kids in wagons or something similar.

Best of luck with pregnancy, birth and the wedding. You have a very busy time ahead of you.

TripleTime
03-02-2009, 19:24
Thats i thought or i could put them in a wagon n my sister can pull them down the isle or my Partners bestman can take boys & my sister can take the girls, if she cant carry them she can pull them in my red wagon from when i was a kid.

Sorted.
Thanks Ladies

babygizaiah
03-02-2009, 22:49
its never to early to start organizing things. we're having 3 bridesmaids 3 groomsmen and then my 8yr nephew as page boy, 2 neices 3 & 1 as flower girls and as my dad passed away 15yrs ago the person I want to step in and walk me down the isle is my beautiful son who will be 2 when we marry.

Let it be havoc who cares, its things like thatl that make the day special and memorable. I cant wait. Bring on the tantrums haha........

TripleTime
04-02-2009, 08:08
Let it be havoc who cares, its things like thatl that make the day special and memorable. I cant wait. Bring on the tantrums haha........

I reckon, bring it on.

My thoughts towards the wedding have changed so so much since i fell preggers. Kinda shocked myself.

Poppetfish
04-02-2009, 11:33
WE got married when my DS was 11 months and he was not walking. My Brother, the best man was going to hold my DS, BUT, He decided to kick up a fuss at the wedding so my Father in law carried him outside and played with him. He was in all the photos though.