I Need To Vent

[*Chels*]

IM SO ANGRY:mad:
My brother,sister and i all left home at 15.
My brother lived with me when he was 15 and i was 19.Hes the greatest guy ever and weve always had a great relationship,i love him so much.
My sister is the opposite.she went to live with my aunty and uncle for 8 months til she went into foster care.she treated my aunty and uncle like **** then was so unhappy with her foster home that i let her live with me.
At the time i was pregnant and she caused me so mmuch grief,lying,bunking school,drinking etc.She even told me she hoped i had a miscarriage.
I finally got rid of her when i came to live in oz last dec.she then moved in with my bro.
Since then she has been giving him the same grief but worse.she has friends over all the time,up late drinking while my bro tries to sleep.stealing his food and clothes,messing up the house and having no respect for him or his stuff.
she wouldnt pay rent or bills and now owes my bro $300.he gave her 2 weeks notice to move out.when she didnt pay rent after he asked for it AGAIN,he finally snapped.He took all her stuff,locked it in garage and locked her out of house.
his plan was to hold her stuff til she paid him but she smashed her way in and got it.now he has no way of gettingf his money.i was talking to mum and she said she got the idea that money was no object to my sis as she was getting her dress made for school ball and buying the best makeup.
god she makes me angry!!!
now shes threatning to smash my bros car up!!i cant do anything coz im here and they r in nz.
im soooooooooooooo ****ed off with my sister.shes a selfish stupid *****.shes never showed an interest in my son.my bro has been the best uncle in the world.
im going home on sunday,im so tempted to find her and kick her ***.
i cant believe shes screwed over everyone shes lived with and burnt all her bridges!!!shes only 16,but come on!!learn from your mistakes already!!
luckily my bro is moving to oz in nov!!then he never wants to see my sis again.i dont either and she will not be invited to my wedding nor have anything to do with my son.
mum,my bro and i are scattering my nanas ashes while im in nz.my sis isnt invited.we dont want her there coz my nana knew what she was like and my sis never gave a **** bout her
i just really hate her and im fuming bout this whole thing!!!!!!!:mad: :banghead:

[mrsbutterflygirl]

:hugs: what a horrible situation.... i hope you have a good time back in nz though besides what's happening with your sister...

[dannii]

oh boy no wonder your mad!!
But good on you for trying to take care of your family!
My sister took me in when i was 8 and we have a great relationship.

I also was a right little b**** to everyone when i was that age. i know what you feel like doing but try to stay calm. good luck with her, really!
hopefully, when she gets older she will regret what she has done and whats shes done to other people, although i know that doesnt help at the present! :hugs:

[Indigosmum]

Hi,

You poor thing. Siblings can be so awkward sometimes. My Brother came to live with me when he was 15 as he wasnt getting along famously with my Dad. I had a lot of issues with him as well, mainly role responsibility issues "Your not my Mum" and cause our parents lived 1 1/2 hours away, I felt responsible for him, so would lay down a few rules. lol

He only stayed with me for about 1 1/2 years, before going back to Mum and Dad and eventually into his own accomodation. But now he is great, he still has his problems here and there, but he is a terrific bro.

Maybe your sister will come around in the future. In the meantime, maybe steering clear is a sensible thing. She sounds like she has a lot of issues she needs to work through.

Wishing you all good luck for the future.