i feel so isolated

[mum of 3]

im 23 and have 3 adorable children ds-3 dd1-2 and dd2-4mths none of my friends have children and the only one that does is a very frantic mum and doesnt like going out with him in case he gets up set or tired(crazy i know) i dont see anyone any more as they have their own party lives the only adult conversation i have is with dp or his mum when she comes around for dinner once a week was wondering if anyone else was in the same position when they had children:confused:

[iamLilysmummy]

well u in the right place.. talk to us here.!!

but i no its not the same,...

wat state u in??

[Whispers]

:hugs:,

I know just how you feel im 22 with 3 kids, DS-4 1/2, DD1-3 1/2 DD2- 11Mths.

Where abouts are you from?

[saremc]

Hey im in the same situation, no many friends with kids and the ones i do have are a bit snobby. Talk to me lol :laughing: i sound so sad.

[Whispers]

Hey im in the same situation, no many friends with kids and the ones i do have are a bit snobby. Talk to me lol :laughing: i sound so sad.



:laughing: we can all be sad together

[mum of 3]

thanks for your replies i dont feel like so such of a loner now hehe im from melb and your selves??

[Whispers]

oh bummer im from brisbane :laughing:

[mum of 3]

:(bummer talking is god though lol iv been doing the baby talk thing all day it feels weird useing normal words lol

[Whispers]

:laughing:.

whos a cheeky weeky aboo :laughing:

Oh i hear ya :laughing:

[saremc]

:laughing: i know what you mean when DF gets home im still talking silly ahhh im from Toowoomba

[mum of 3]

yep yep and my older 2 are at the no mummy stage grr please put that back NO MUMMY evie dont do that NO MUMMY its cute but grr its tiring lol:hair:

[Whispers]

:laughing:,

DD2 has just learnt to take her nappy off if you seen my thread earlier you will know what happened

[mum of 3]

my dd1 has been doing that for a while now we have tried every thing to stpo her sh gets poo every were its grose we have to put her nappy on back wards and put sticky tape over the tabs :hair:

[Whispers]

:laughing:
little ferals they are

[mum of 3]

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[greengables]

why dont u guys go to a playgroup? or 2 or 3? lol
that's what i do - we go about 3 times per week. that's how i have met other mums and kids. I'm younger than most of them - I'm 27 and they're all over 33 - 39...but has been great

[littleboritto]

I'm from Melbourne too!
I dont have any kids yet, but I'm currently 29 weeks along and my bub is due May 09. I'm already feeling like a loaner not hanging out with the people I used to lol. I'm in need of new friends lol

[SammieSnail]

Greengables is right, the only solution is to get out and go to a playgroup. Many libraries also have kiddie Rock 'n' Rhyme sessions.

See if there is a young mums group in your area you can hook into as well. Only problem I found is that most of the organisers are quite enthusiastic but the mums aren't.

The area we used to live in had 7 or 8 different playgroups so I just went one by one till I found some girls I got on with and a fun atmosphere for DS.

Good luck becoming a mum can isolate you from friends you no longer share a similar life with, but there are plenty of other ladies just like you wanting to get together.

[axelandlexismum]

Hello all...

Im from Melbourne and im 23 with an 8 1/2 mth old DS.... Love him to bits much since having him my social life sucks lol, thank god for the net hehehehe...

I completely understand what you are all saying, i suffer from OND although im doing very well i still cant venture out much and dont see the point if im alone lol... My DF works in hospitality so he works all dad and late nights so im alone heaps!!!!

Chat soon

[Langgymummy]

Hay,

I'm a mum of 3 too, I feel like I have been locked in this house for 5 years now lol, I'm in the same boat most of my firends don't have kids or if they do they live interstate.......
BTW thats a fantastic idea about the nappies, I had never thought of that! My 2 year old is going though the 'lets paint the walls with poo'stage, soo much fun!:banghead:

[mum of 3]

lol it is isnt it gota love the poo painting lol she is getting out of that now and on to tt :o with not much success .

[MissMetal]

:wave: Im in Melbourne too... well Sunbury aka Scumbury.... Im 27 with a 5 week old DS :p
NONE of my mates have babies, Im such a loner...
No one wants to play with me anymore (partying is much more important to them :() so all i do is hang out all day everyday with my bubba :baby:
I HATE living out here, I really want to move back to civilization at some stage if financially possible :ecomcity:

THE END :raspberry:

[mum of 3]

i know what you mean i used to live in diggers rest and i felt sooo far from civilization its hard to get used to thats for sure i still have no friends but im getting used to it lol i descovered the internet lmao

[Milktini]

Putting my hand up to join the no friends club :wave::laughing:

Im Jo, I have a 13 month old DS, Kaiden, And im 9 weeks UTD with number #2 Im from Brissy.

[leeloulee]

hi

im also one to join this club. im 23 with 2 girls. all my friends still like to go out every weekend and i get left at home with my 2 kidlets. DH still likes to go out to but luckily not as much as he used to. I tried going to playgroups but found that i was so much younger then most of the other mothers there.

oh im lou by they way

[mum of 3]

hi

im also one to join this club. im 23 with 2 girls. all my friends still like to go out every weekend and i get left at home with my 2 kidlets. DH still likes to go out to but luckily not as much as he used to. I tried going to playgroups but found that i was so much younger then most of the other mothers there.

oh im lou by they way


heya lou

i know what you mean about the mothers groups iv been to a few but they were sooo much older than be iv given up lol
were are you from i you dont mind me asking

[benzjewlz]

im 24 and a mum to 3 aged 4 1/2,2 1/2 and my youngest just turned 1.....
and like everyone else here all my friends have no children and i find myself lonely and wishing to talk to someone over the age of 5...:ecomcity: