anemone
07-01-2009, 17:23
Hi all!
Im new here and not yet TTC, although very much want to. Im 37 and dh is 44. Having trouble convincing dh that we should start asap - he wants to focus on getting a bigger place (we're in a unit - no room for us let alone bubs!) first. So he thinks Ill miraculously get pg straight away and then we'll be under heaps of pressure in the househunt.
I take his point but Im worried about the age factor. Im worried that if we don't start till Im nearly 38 and then we run into problems, once you factor in investigations etc, we'll be up against the wire.
Never been pg before. I do seem to ovulate with a 26ish day cycle and good cm etc, plus FSH has been 6ish so that's pretty good. But I know FSH isnt that reliable ...:confused:
So my Q is do you think an ovarian reserve test is a good idea? Supposedly AMH and ovary ultrasound to show the no of follies at the start of your cycle - gives the best indication of how much time you have. Im thinking if its good then I can relax and we can start after moving at the end of the year, and if its bad, at least Ill have some evidence to convinve dh, apart from my hunches.
Ive seen that Repromed offer this but they are in Adelaide. Has anyone had it done via their GP - esp in sydney?? Do you have to go to an IVF clinic - and would they even see me given we are not yet even TTC
Thanks for any help!!
Confused
Im new here and not yet TTC, although very much want to. Im 37 and dh is 44. Having trouble convincing dh that we should start asap - he wants to focus on getting a bigger place (we're in a unit - no room for us let alone bubs!) first. So he thinks Ill miraculously get pg straight away and then we'll be under heaps of pressure in the househunt.
I take his point but Im worried about the age factor. Im worried that if we don't start till Im nearly 38 and then we run into problems, once you factor in investigations etc, we'll be up against the wire.
Never been pg before. I do seem to ovulate with a 26ish day cycle and good cm etc, plus FSH has been 6ish so that's pretty good. But I know FSH isnt that reliable ...:confused:
So my Q is do you think an ovarian reserve test is a good idea? Supposedly AMH and ovary ultrasound to show the no of follies at the start of your cycle - gives the best indication of how much time you have. Im thinking if its good then I can relax and we can start after moving at the end of the year, and if its bad, at least Ill have some evidence to convinve dh, apart from my hunches.
Ive seen that Repromed offer this but they are in Adelaide. Has anyone had it done via their GP - esp in sydney?? Do you have to go to an IVF clinic - and would they even see me given we are not yet even TTC
Thanks for any help!!
Confused