ManekiNeko
21-12-2008, 14:26
Ok I really did not know where to post this and I don't mean to offend anyone by posting here as if I think it's the same hting. I jsut posted here because I guess people in this thread could give me a similar insight.
My mother just told me my brother wants to have gender reassignment surgery. I'm shocked to say the least because I didn't and still can't see any indicators he would say this he is 32. I want to support him but I feel very uncomfortable with the situation at the moment which makes me feel guilty and selfish because I know this must be very hard for him.
I know it's not the same but similar but could anyone give me insight on when they came out ot their family. Did you understand some people were uncomfortable did you respect that they needed time to adjust. I would have thought I was open minded but by the way my emotions are going right now it doesn't appear I am and I feel horrible fo rhtat. Like I said I don't want to hurt my brother but I can't seem to control or get my emotions around this atm.
My mother just told me my brother wants to have gender reassignment surgery. I'm shocked to say the least because I didn't and still can't see any indicators he would say this he is 32. I want to support him but I feel very uncomfortable with the situation at the moment which makes me feel guilty and selfish because I know this must be very hard for him.
I know it's not the same but similar but could anyone give me insight on when they came out ot their family. Did you understand some people were uncomfortable did you respect that they needed time to adjust. I would have thought I was open minded but by the way my emotions are going right now it doesn't appear I am and I feel horrible fo rhtat. Like I said I don't want to hurt my brother but I can't seem to control or get my emotions around this atm.