OMG how rude!

[mum2littleman]

i was at the shop with DS today just down at wollies when just as i was about to walk in the supermarket door a young maybe 26 yr old came came up and stoped me, he said "hello little man" "arnt you beautiful" i said thankyou! he then turned to me and said he is very cute but very FAT!{his 9.2kg i just smiled and said his not fat his just a little over weight but his healthy - he then told me its not healthy to be fat that i should have a skinny baby .. i told him his doctor said he is a nice weight if he gets sick he will not end up in hosp like a skinny baby would he then riped through me yelling at me telling me to be a better mother and start taking care of my son{HELLO}{i have never seen this man in my life how would he no what i do wit my son} he then told me to start feeding him only 2 bottles a day and feeding him nothing but vegies and NO custard! so to be polite i stood there and listened and then said ok and walked in to the shop.. once in there i was buying nappies and caned baby food and him a toy the same guy came in to the baby section where i was and screamed at me for putting canned food in the trolly and took them out! and told me to go by fresh vegies for him i said do u have any children ? he said no and i said well who dare u tell me how to bring up my son" he then told me that im a silly little girl and shouldnt have a baby because i dont no how to look after him... i put the food back in the trolly and he took them out again when i said do u mind he is my son u go have ur own and bring him up how u wish but this is my baby not urs after 5 times of him taking the food out he gave up and walked away still thinking he was right!!! how rude his my son his not fat and he will be brought up how i wish not how sum stranger think!!


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the mummy- louise 20{lou}
the baby- lucas 6 months{lukey}

[Mum&bubs]

:mad: people like this make me so mad!!! Why is it their concern neways? Dont worry its your bub & you know hes healthy & stupid people like him dont matter

[misskittyfantastico]

I wouldn't take any notice...the guy sounds a bit strange.

[drewid]

He does sound like he has some issues - not your typical interfering do-gooder. Take no notice. :hugs:

[Jem]

:eek: This guy sounds like a whacko!! freaky stuff :eek:

[Mum&bubs]

I also would have tried to kick him outta the shop who takes strangers food out of their trolly? :devil6:

[lukaelmo]

What a knob. Why do people need to make negative comments on other's babies? If I had a dollar for every time I have been asked if the dude was premature (he is 10 months and weighs 7 kilos)...well you know the rest.

[veve]

:eek: He took food out of your trolley?? while berating you??? I would have called security on the spot... and had him removed from the centre. idiot.. :mad:

(9.2 kilos is not fat... my DS is 9.5 - and is perfect :D)

xx

[mum2littleman]

i no i couldnt believe how rude he was sorry i was so angry just had to let it out!
its not that he was calling my son fat and telling me what to feed him that buged me so much well it was that but the facted he called me a silly little girl and didnt no how to look after my son.grrr sum ppl!

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The Mummy- Louise 20{Lou}
The Baby-Lucas 6 months {Lukey}

[gillianf]

OMW that is the weirdest thing? I think that guy is off HIS trolley, to be quite honest! I would have called the shop security!

[caz]

I think this guy has got some serious issues. I wouldn't worry about what he said to you because it is obvious he's got no idea.

:hugs: for you

[mum2littleman]

thanks guys feeling alot better..now that i no im not the only one thinking there is sumthing wrong wit him and not my son and my self..:hugs:

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The Mummy- Louise 20{Lou}
The Baby-Lucas 6 months {Lukey}

[Elfin]

There is nothing wrong with you but this guy on the other hand has a major screw loose. I can't believe this story, it is a pity there was not security around, you have a right to shop in peace and not be harassed. Hope you never come across him again but if you see go straight to the service desk if he says even a word to you. He sounds like a loony.

[Niki]

omg wat a weiro :eek:

[SamanthaJane]

That is so rude!!!!

I would never ever ever ever ever say that to a complete stranger, i think its totally odd and seriously weird of people to make comments like this!!

Some people these days!!!!...:banghead:

[mysonroger]

I wouldn't take any notice...the guy sounds a bit strange.


i wouldn't worry about it (although i'd be shaking with fright) . i bet he would go pick on somebody else about an entirely different issue. he's just looking for a fight. mental health prolems, etc.

[Mylittleboy]

Thats very strange, I would have told shop security, very strange indeed. :confused:

[♥Heaven Sent♥]

What a weirdo :eek: !!I woulda told him to get f***ed.Obviously he has no idea what it takes to raise a baby and even though our babies need healthy food its nice to have a break from cooking once in a while.Dont worry bout him hes a bit COOKOO abit i mean ALOT:laughing: and your son is not overweight:no:

[Oscar's mum]

I would have got security!:eek:

[Mahjong]

Louise, Ive seen little Luke in real life and he aint fat darl. He's adorable!

Wy's the same and was the same weight as Luke at that age.

He's a happy healthy and such a content little boy. You are doing a GREAT job :)

[Grizabella]

Firstly - Your son is not fat!!! My son was 10.4kgs at the same age!! And he definately wasn't, and now that he is nearly 1 he is 13kgs, and still not overweight.

Secondly - What a bloody nut job! If someone tried to pull that stunt with me, I woulda punched him in the face! What a ******. I wouldn't put any stock into what this weirdo said to you. Guy obviously has issues.

[tyhleigha & izaiah's mum]

if that was me he did that too i would have turned around and slapped him right across the face :devil6:

how dare he say stuff like that when he doesnt even know you or have children for that fact

what a weirdo:confused:

[Beany]

Him: He's very cute but very fat
Me: *slow look up and down the nutcase* Well, at least he's cute.

[Harlequin]

I would have called security in a heartbeat.

[andrewsmum]

That's so rude - and it's so not his business.

My DS at 6months old was 9.8kg, he was chubby but cute with elephant legs and thighs!! LOL... Now he's nearly 2.5 years and is tall, lean and 15.2kg in the normal range. I'm sure your bub is fine!! Don't worry the rest of his body will catch up as he grows!!

As for that guy in Woolies, I would have told him where to go!! Gee... I guess with all the worries about overweight kids these days he's probably concerned that overweight babies mean overweight kids - but not necessarily!! Grr... maybe give the store a call, or lodge a complaint (was he an employee there??).:thumbsdown:

[catalicious]

Oh my goodness!!!

Thats is one of the rudest things Iv heard for a while!!!

And then to go through YOUR shopping trolley and pick things out!!!

That would of sent me off I would of made a huge scene and embarressed the Hell out of him...

Far out he must of had alot go on in his life or something but nothing excuss his actions...

I also would of called for security prob whilst making a scene....:D

I wouldnt worry about it, they wouldnt be able to sell baby food if it wasnt good for babies.... And I would prefer my baby to be chubby then as skinny as he is, it would do him a favor this winter!!

[jessgray]

i would have got security what a weirdo lol

[TJ]

hah you should have thrown the tins of food at him, might have knocked some sense into him.... heheh:devil6:

[mum2littleman]

:) thanks guys


* no he didnt work there other wise i would have been tellign sumone..

* its not like i feed him cans all the time he gets fresh vegies every night and just cans for lunch or puree fruit..

* hmm sumtimes i wish i had the guts to go right off at him {more so than i did}or attract sum attention to what he was doing but i tryed to stick up for my self i just feel belittled when sumone talks down to me

its all well and good if he wants to think that but dont tell sumone! and if u dont have children how would u no what u would do wit ur own babies want what they want not what u want them to have!



{ and thanks Beth for that im glade u dont think he looks fat in person}
im like everymum i think my child is perfect he is healthy and that all i care about after all if there was a problem wit his weight his doctor would have told me..


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the mummy - louise 20{lou}
the baby - lucas 6 months{lukey}

[mum33]

i was shocked when i read that!! :eek: some people!!

what gives him the right???? it makes me so angry to read things like that.

i just showed DP your story and he said if anything like that ever happens to me i am to call him straightaway.....lol. (overprotective:p ) but he wouldnt need to because i would not only have a go at him for having the bad manners and disrespect to talk to me like that but i would very publicly humiliate him in front of the whole supermarket!!! i'm glad u told him off but i agree with tara-jane, should of threw the cans at him!!!! lol:p :laughing:

[Milliner]

OMG, Why do people always have something to say, i think that the older women are the worst they think just because they had a child or 2 maybe 20,30,40,50 years ago that they know all. I hate it when people do not mind there own business. :mad:

[vanillabean]

I used to get really ammoyed when people used to call my son fat. He was always above average for his weight and height. Now he is 3 1/2 years old and taller than most kids his age and is not fat at all, so what would they know.

[Tam-I-Am]

:hugs: Sweetie, this is his issue - not yours. You are obviously a caring loving mum, with a happy healthy bub. You don't have to take on board some strangers issues, although I completely understand why this incident upset you so much - I would have been terrified to.

If it happens again, don't even talk to him, walk up to the service desk, and tell them that you're being harrassed for the 2nd time by a man you don't know, and would like security to attend as you feel unsafe.

[mum2bubba]

OMG!!! I would have opened a can of baby food and poured it all over him, what a rude thing to say. I hate people who give unwanted advice especially when they haven't got kids of their own.

[mumma_jessy]

:mad:
I can not beleive that guy, i'm wih what one of other girls said, i would have liked to throw the cans at him!

My son was a big boy, bigger than your little boy at his age. He is the healthiest little boy i know, i can honestly say he has never been sick with something more than a little cold, ever! (he is now 2 1/2)

How dare he judge you!! Don't listen to the nut job, your doctor says it's fine, so it's fine. Sounds to me like your doing a great job, and you've got a healthy happy little boy to show for it!

[MeeG]

oh my god pyscho! i dont if i could have handled that as well as u did, some people are jus mental

[YourSweet666]

RAH! I hate people like that...they think they know it all!

They assume a young mum means a bad mum! Its so unfair! Who on earth does he think he is to tell someone what to do with their child when he doesnt have a CLUE about raising children!

GRRR! Don't let this idiot get to you. If your baby is healthy and happyt hen you are clearly a FANTASTIC mother

xxx