The "left-overs club"

[sparkle5301]

Are there any others like me, who don't particularly fit into any threads?
I am 35, but not TTC #1 (we are trying for #4).
We haven't been ttc for 12 months - only 6 months, but still feel like we're on a rollercoaster!
We are not seeing a FS, and not planning to, as we already have 3 wonderful children. (and we know how lucky we are!)

What is your story, as I'm sure there are many people with wide and varied tales to tell....

[MimiGrace]

I think i might fit in here.

I'm single so i'm not ttc yet
nor do i have children yet
(that makes it sound like i should find another forum actually :rolleyes:)

but i think about kids, literally all the time. everything i do relates back to me having children [asap].
But it does mean i don't really fit in anywhere properly yet...:o

[QTB]

sounds like your a good 'leftover' :D


Im also a leftover...

ttc#2, with previous problems (DS1 took 23mths ttc, DS2 19months)

iv just started (today :() my 2nd af after having bubs, so havent been ttc long yet.

i had a faint BFP 2 weeks ago, and since, blood test on friday, but af showed today, so i have noooo idea whats going on... seems im back to ttc though...

:D

[mumtofive]

Hi im Lisa and im a left over!

I am 31 and not officialy ttc for the last 3 months, and officially ttc in april next year.
When i do concieve it will be pregnancy #7, but baby # 6.

I spend up big in hpt that are alway neg and get dissapointed when af shows.

I fit in the large family thread, but dont seam to fit any where else atm.

Trying to concieve has to be the hardest thing that i have ever done....

[KatiesMum]

:hugs: to all of you. You are not leftovers.

The other threads are simply for likeminded people to chat. As long as you are understanding of the issues involved, feel free to join any of the other threads ......


I kinda felt a bit that way for a while. I am no longer ttc .... but that is where I seem to fit most as I have been doing it for so long and its all Ive known on bubhub ...... so Ive just stayed :laughing: Now I just seem to hang around like a bad smell - but no-one seems to mind :p

[sparkle5301]

Welcome everyone. I knew I wasn't the only one.
Mimigrace - you sound like me.....I chose to have children at 17, and no-one still believes me. But then, I do look at my immature 17 year old students, and think I was not like most normal 17 year olds. Good luck in your quest to find the perfect partner :laughing: Pull up a seat and stay for a chat at our "club".
QTB - I hope your body sorts itself out real soon. It seems like you have been through alot of emotions in a short space of time already. Hope you stay for a chat also
Mumtofive - Wow, how busy are you???? Your house must be filled with so much love.........and NOISE!! :laughing: I love your children names BTW. Please pull up a seat!
Katiesmum - Please don't think I was upset (I don't know about the other ladies), just a bit lonely, so thought I'd start a new thread! Yes, I too push my way into threads, but do sometimes feel funny doing it. I hope everything is going OK for you - I read your journal and you are an amazingly strong, and positive person. Feel free to stay for a chat

Hope everyone has a great day today! I am excited because I'm going interstate to see my daughter tomorrow, so I know I'm going to be :ecomcity: at work all day today. I'm feeling sorry for them already - their ears will be bleeding by this afternoon :p