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kimcam
06-12-2008, 08:32
Hi There,

My DH gets $680 per week of which the mortgage gets paid weekly of $365.88. I get FTB A & B $240 per fortnight. My DH thinks we cannot get by on what we get and is always wanting to look for ways to make money on the internet. Last year he got into google cash detective paid over $1000 to get into it and did nothing with it. Consequently his credit was over the limit by over $1000. Then yesterday I went to log into my account (debit card) only to discover $304 was used to get into yet another internet business. I was fuming . As I still need to get Xmas presents, car needs repairing $800 before we go away in 2 weeks.

I am thinking about hiding my Debit card so he cannot get at it.

I need advise about how I can approach the subject calmly and rationally.

Kim
DH
DD - almost 2½ years old
TTC #2 since Oct 2007

beaniebabez
06-12-2008, 08:40
I would hide the card and if he asks where it is then tell him you dont want him spending money you could be using elsewhere on internet sites. Let him know that the money was intended for xmas and for car repairs. Stay calm when talking over money and dont row..I think he will get the idea after you tell him your not happy..Good Luck!